Any Other Possibility Other Than Obortion

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Bonolo-Oratilwe - September 9

I posted a question erlier in the week about my girlfriend being confused about wanting to keep or exercute her pregnancy! Now she's finally decided that she's going through with the abortion. And yesterday while we were talking something like an answer hit me! Please can i be informed if there's a possibility of a baby being taken out of the belly (womb) of pregnant woman and maybe being incubated (like test tube babies) somewhere for the remainder of the period?How expensive are those processes if they exist (esitimated figues please). Please reply A.S.A.P. coz time is not on my side,.PLEASE HELP ME!

 

Viv - September 9

None.

 

brucen - September 9

ZERO

 

alejandra - July 29

NOOOOOO...abortion is bad!!!! a risk taken by abortion is dying. you are killing a human being...one that you and your spouse have created..what if that was you?????

 

to Bonolo - July 29

I haven't ever heard of anything like that, but I am very sorry for you. I don't know how it feels but I can sympathize with you because I have helped clean up my older brothers messes for years and finally one day he got a girl pregnant and she decided to have an abortion and I begged her not to, I told her I would pay her medical bills and take the baby from her and she would never have to see it again, or she could see it as often as she wanted or if she just didn't want someone in related to my brother getting it that we knew tons of couples that couldn't have children who would pay her bills and take the baby and all but it came down to she didn't want to raise the child but she didn't want anyone else to have that priveledge either. What amazed me about her though was that she already had 2 children that she loved, I can't imagine having a child and knowing that yes it is hard to be a parent but look what I get out of it, and still going through with it. Anyways, I very very sorry for you. I personally think abortion is horrible, not only because I think it is killing a child but for the mother as well. I have never heard a mother who wasn't ready to have a child but had it anyways, whether they kept it or gave it up for adoption say that they wish they had killed it, but everyone I have ever met who had an abortion has wished they had let it live. I know it seems like a great choice at the time, but trust me, I think one day your girlfriend will regret it.

 

DAYI - July 29

TELL H ER TO HAVE IT AND YOU WILL TAKE CARE OF IT 2.I UNDERTSND THAT WHEN A WOMAN WHANTS HER BABY AND THE DAD DOSEN'T SHE SHOULD HAVE IT BECAUSE IS HER BODY HER BABY AND SHE WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO GO TRUE LIFE THINKING SHE KILL HER BABY.BUT IF THE DAD ALSO WHANTS THE BABY SHE SHOULD THINK ABOUT IT BECAUSE THAT IS YOUR BABY 2. DON'T LET HER HAVE AN ABORTION

 

READ IT AGAIN! - July 29

He doesn't want an abortion. He's asking if the fetus can be frozen or something and brought back to life at a later date. Bonolo, I don't think so. If that were the case, I think there would be a lot fewer abortions.

 

Julz - July 29

You need to make it very clear to your girlfriend that it took two people to make that baby, so you have just as much of a right to what happens to that child as she does. Although, ultimately it is her body, it's your child too, and you at least deserve a say in the matter.

 

Jbear - July 29

Did anyone notice the date of the original post? Whatever was going to happen to this baby has already happened.

 

Anika - July 31

There are others ways other killing the baby. You can have an open adoption, which is some one else raises the baby but the birth parents will still be known as the baby grows up. You can get pictures, letters and can even visit the baby. If that is what you want! Killing the baby is not good thing to do. She may regret and hate herself later.

 

wow - July 31

some of you women are so righteous and simple minded. No offense is intended but give me a break...suggesting her friend take care of it? telling her that abortion is the worst thing on earth...I am pro-choice and believe that a woman has a right to choose...but why are not all of you suggested adoption as a possibility...too busy making people feel bad for choices that are anything but easy...

 

I agree with wow - July 31

You guys are quick to jump on the bandwagon here.. If you all pay attention and read the original post - you will see the MAN WANTING TO KEEP his baby and his GF wanting the abortion - he is wanting (well, was now) to know what HIS rights are in KEEPING the baby. You guys are soo freaking quick with the holier then thou att_tude - where is the help? Where is the information? He CAN actually take HER to court. It's been done before and the guy won. His gf was not allowed to have an abortion and the baby went right to him once it was born. People have a misconception of it being the "woman" s choice because it's her body. [email protected] It takes two to tango and two to decide the little one's fate. Most men do run from that role so it does become the womans decision, but a when a man wants to step up and take responsibility and she runs - what are his rights? Where can he turn for advice? Obviously not here since all he is going to get is how bad having an abortion is. I think he knows this already... Please, if you're going to give support and help - do so - if you are going to jump on a bandwagon be carefull of the first step and you will probably fall off and look like an idiot.

 

w - September 30

leav

 

w - September 30

try to support her it will be hard but try to convinec her

 

teigan - September 30

not a chance in hell. what are the reasons for this abortion? im so so sorry about what your going through, but no matter what you do or say, she seems to think that its ust her decision, when really its both regardless of whos belly it is. i really hipe and pray she changes her mind, and i hope she realises when she has an abortion, how then actually kill it, its disgusting, how far along is she?

 

Kate - September 30

teigan, the original post was in September last year, so she'll have either had a termination ages ago or will have a baby by now!

 

Sue - September 30

Can't you consult an attorney for a restraining order against terminating the pregnancy? I have heard of this don't know if you can do it or not, but it may be worth a try.

 

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