Attraction To Other Men Is This Normal

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Shannon - October 3

First of all, I have never cheated on my husband & will not. Secondly, I had a miscarriage two weeks ago (first pregnancy). Anyway, since the miscarriage I have not felt emotionally ready for s_x with my husband. I am afraid that if I get pregnant again I could miscarriage. My husband is very lovely and supportive but seemed to handle the miscarriage better than myself. Once it was over with, he was like we just need to try again. We'll get pregnant. This att_tude did not make me feel like he was morning the lose like myself which made/makes me angry. In the meantime due to all this I have been feeling an attraction to other men. I do not act on my feelings but I have fantasy's. They are just fantasy's about kissing or touching them----NEVER about SEX!! Is this normal? I feel terrible about it. What is wrong with me? Help anyone................

 

Viv - October 3

We grieve with you! You are doing the Kubler-Ross thing (denial, anger, bargaining, depression and finally acceptance). Let him help you. He just needs to understand.

 

Jane - October 5

Men don't feel all the creaking and groaning our bodies go through so it's easier for them to forget/move on. Mine (husband)was the same att_tude as yours whereas I wanted to get pregnant again in an impatient kind of way.

 

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