Crazy I Don T Want To Have Sex

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Ranae - September 17

I am crazy? Here's my story: I had a miscarriage two weeks ago today. Although, I was not very far along I was/am devestated. I have been married almost 12 years & we have been on fertility drugs. I don't want to get pregnant right away again b/c I don't know if I could handle another loss so close to the last one if I miscarried again. Anyway, I don't want to have s_x b/c I am afraid of getting pregnant again--it has only been two weeks since I miscarried! My husband will not use a condom b/c he says I should not be afraid of getting pregnant b/c he just knows in his heart if I did so soon God would not let us loose another baby (Yes, he is definitely an extremely positive person). I feel crazy b/c I don't even want to be touched. Is all this normal? I just don't feel ready for s_x yet. Please help.....................

 

monique - September 17

Tell your husband you need to let your body heal, if he's a positive person he'll understand. But you know your body, it does hurt to have a miscarriage, but look at it like this God has a purpose for everything. You just may have two when you try again. Don't get to down because your mind controls your body. And it is normal not to want to be touched.Ask him to understand you.

 

Ranae - September 18

Thanks. I guess I was just wanting someone to tell me what I am going through is normal.

 

Bella - September 18

Your reaction is normal. You need to take time to heal. Your husband will understand and you need to understand that he too has suffered a lose.

 

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