Don T Know What To Do

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confused - September 1

i have been married 5 years, and although my husband and i want to have a family, he nevers comes inside of me Its like he's afraid to just let it go Is there anything i can do to make him feel at ease. we dicussed that when i wa ovulating we would try, an we had s_x many times around the fertile days, and he still pulled out. well except the last time, we think he didn't pull out fast enough. so we are waiting to see what happend, as i'm due in a few days for my period. he said he'd be so happy if i were preg, but then why not try all the way? any advice?? thanks!

 

SaRaH - September 1

Maybe he doesnt want to let you down if it doesnt happen right away!!!

 

confused - September 1

i don't think its that. i really am not sure its like a fear

 

SaRaH - September 1

Is it that he is notready? or could it be that he is worried about fiances or that yall relationship will be different/ there could be a million reasons! Talk to him and tell him how you feel about it!!!!

 

Candy - September 1

It sounds like your husband is trying to be supportive of you wanting a child and he may not truly want one yet. Were you pushing him about children? If you husband wants a child he would not be pulling out. He is pulling out for a reason. I suggest that you really talk to him because you do not want to have a child if your husband is not ready. It will/can cause problems later in your marriage. Good luck, hun.

 

Cheryl - September 1

Sorry but I think your husband is telling you what he thinks you want to hear. His actions are shouting that he does not want a baby right now. I would definitely talk to him about it. In the meantime, I would put having a family on hold. I am afraid that if you get pregnant your husband will be mentally detached from the pregnancy and therefore, you will be raising a child alone mentally. Best of luck.

 

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