Finding Out The Sex To Or Not To

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EL - January 12

My husband wants to know the s_x of our baby and I have always thought that it was one of life's few great surprises. This coming from the girl that can't stand waiting til x-mas to open pressents. I am very torn as to finding out. Any advise would be appriciated. Also I really really want a boy and I am afraid if its a girl I will feel bad and be disappointed. Is that bad?

 

Jenn - January 12

This is just a matter of opinion of course. I really feel it is great to find out, it helps you bond with your baby even more before it is born. You can plan a little more, and get excited about gender specific plans you might have. Even refering to the baby by name I think helps bond. And hey, your still suprised about the gender, just sooner :) Again, its only a matter of opinion, follow your heart.

 

Rey - January 12

I'm the same as you are, I don't want to find out but my husband does because he says that it helps with bonding. But we decided to be suprised and wait until delivery to find out. My friends who waited said it was the greatest wait ever...so we will wait.

 

CM - January 12

I am SUPER impatient too so i HAD to know but i'm so glad i found out!! I love being able to call my little guy by his name it feels like i already know him!! Anyway i figure we are planning on having another one so that baby can be a surprise......if i can wait!! My bf wasnt sure he wanted to know but he is very happy now too that we found out, he said it feels like he can bond with baby Kian before he gets here. Everyday he tell him..."daddy loves Kian" hehe how cute!!

 

Mel - January 21

I am preg with my 4th, I never found out the s_x of the others but was thinking about it for this one. I am still undecided. I think not knowing was a great help to get through labour, looking forward to the suprise at the end.

 

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