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Danny - January 31st, 2005 1:16 PM

If you get pregnant when using the pull out method, That means HE DIDN'T PULL-OUT. You make have a belly full of cum but the first few blasts are at the peak of orgasm and once it hits he wont stop. After the peak the orgasm continues but is weaker, it is then easer to pull out and mess up the bed. You think he pulled out. He came on you and you have no idea that a couple shots were fired in you. not enough to leak out afterwards either. You need to see the dick from the start of the cum to be sure he pulls out or you have no idea if he stoped in time. He will lie too. I don't care what you say if you got pregnant using pull out he let some go inside you WAKE UP!!!!!!

EJ - January 31st, 2005 1:28 PM

Beautifully put.

Jessica - January 31st, 2005 4:48 PM

It is hard to tell when he actually started to come inside of you, that is why it is important to mot use the "pull out" method. when he fully comes inside of you isn't the part that gets you pregnant, it is the first couple of shots of sperm that gets you pregnant. So don't think that just because he didn' t come fully inside you that you can't get pregnant. Be careful ladies.

TC - January 31st, 2005 4:59 PM

The question I have though is, would you feel the first couple of bursts/shots? Semen is notibly really hot and warm, why would one not feel that initially? Does that go along the same lines as not being able to feel the pre-cum that is released?

dee - January 31st, 2005 11:52 PM

TC just to answer your question.....NO a girl can not feel it. to be honest the only way we kow you are about to cum or are cumming is if you moan or however it is that you express your "happyness" lol other then that we can tell by feeling afterwards because a guys cum feels totaly different then a girls

TC - February 1st, 2005 12:15 AM

Dee...thanks for the response. I am actually a girl but had never felt the actual ejaculation. That is why I asked if the woman is supposed to feel the ejaculation.

Cathy - February 1st, 2005 8:28 AM

The reason the pull out method is very unreliable is because a man very often will leak 'pre cum' before he actually has an orgasm. Pre cum contains thousands of sperm. Pre cum looks see thru because the sperm are so tiny your cant see them unless they are in thier millions like a normal ejaculation. It doesnt matter whether he pulls out in time or not. Even if he does the likelyhood is that there are about 5000 sperms released inside you anyway.

Babe - February 1st, 2005 1:30 PM

If he begins having sex with you w/out protection, then pulls out, puts on a condom with spermicide, does this get rid of (gosh that sounds tacky "get rid of") the sperm from the pre-cum?

~m~ - February 1st, 2005 1:37 PM

Goodness, Danny, we didn't ask for a lesson on male ejaculation, most of us already know what you're telling us. The issue mainly addressed on this forum concerning "pull-out" is pre-cum. It begins almost instantly upon penetration. If you don't believe me, go give a guy a blow job and you'll see that after a few seconds you begin to taste it.... well before the orgasm!!!! The orgasm itself is beside the point, though....... it's the precum that is the issue here. The proverbial "pull-out" method isn't a METHOD for anything except denial. It is NOT birth control! No matter when you "pull out"!!!!! It serves no purpose other than to give people an "excuse" for getting pregnant. "Well, duh, I don't know how I knocked her up, I pulled it out before the first 'blast' !!" Give me a break!!!! ----- And Babe, NO, putting a condom on AFTER already being inside you does not "get rid of" anything.... the precum already has little swimmers going to work!

Babe - February 2nd, 2005 1:38 PM

Hmm. So the spermcide doesn't cut it...thanks

a guys view - February 2nd, 2005 3:17 PM

That is true. It happend to me. I went to pull out a little too late (past the point) and It was like my body wouldn't let me. Thankfully my wife is on the pill and at this point we are just about ready to start a family anyway

e - February 3rd, 2005 10:19 AM

Haven't you ever heard that "they dribble before they shoot"...
So I think you need to WAKE UP.

Danny - February 5th, 2005 3:04 AM

Have you ever heard of a shot going IN and OUT?

Oh My - February 6th, 2005 10:17 AM

It is necessary to get childish about it? Everyone is entitled to their own opinion...At least Danny is trying to warn women of the possiblity!

I did - February 6th, 2005 8:15 PM

Me and my bf had sex yesterday, using the 'pull-out' method. Not to get too graphic, but he was 'behind' me - we've done this many times, and I haven't gotten pregnant. BUT yesterday he decided to be 'coy' and he came inside me and let a 'little' bit dribble out on my back to make me think that he 'pulled out'. I FELT him ejaculate - not the sperm, but the contractions of his orgasm. I confronted him on it, and it took him awhile, but he FINALLY admitted it. He is now my ex-bf because after he admitted it, he told me: "Don't get a big head about now...." What a jerk! Danny's right, Ladies BE CAREFUL!

marsha - February 8th, 2005 11:13 AM

I am going to assume that many of the replies here (as well as the post) is/are from young viewers.

Pull-out method is a very immature method, very risky method of contraception.

What I see going on here on this post is a reminder of the 'heat of the moment' hopeful contraception. The wake up call should be before the heat of the moment, not after ejaculation.

To Marsha - February 8th, 2005 4:51 PM

Although i try not to I take offense to saying that the posts and responses were done by young people. Heat of the moment can easily be done through pure passion of your loved one no matter what the age. They say you mature with age, however that does not mean you might make a mistake or two when your older.


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