He Didn T Say Anything Just Venting

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skinnyminny - May 2

I just got in touch with my fiance and i told him i'm almost 2 weeks late and he didnt say anything. I told him the the "symptoms" are totally different from the time i THOUGHT i was pregnant but WASN'T. I told him I'm going to get a HPT today. He didn't say jack-sh*t. He said, "alright". I thought he'd be excited or worried or nervous or SOMETHING. Nothing. Nothing. He said its cuz he's tired. UM? SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO? I just think that was totally wrong. I feel like im alone in this now. I want to cry. I dreamt that i told him i thought i was pregnant and he drove out here to get me. I dreamt that he was nervous but still happy. None of that. LAST TIME we found out we weren't pregnant we were both dissapointed. I'm gonna have to say that maybe thats why he's so disinterested. Maybe he doesnt want to be dissapointed. whatever

 

LadyD - May 2

skinnyminny, don't worry. Maybe he doesn't want the dissappointment, either. Honestly, in my opinion he sounds like the type of person you tell once you CONFIRM you are pg, not "I think I am." Know what I mean? It's probably because he doesn't want to hear it over and over, I think I think I am. Don't get me wrong, I don't know him or you obviously but that's how some men are. You probably want to tell him every detail about what you feel and what you think, but he probably doesn't realize how important this is to you. I know how my dh is, he wouldn't want to hear the "maybe," he wants the "I am." I hope that makes you feel a little better. Sit down and talk, let him know how you really feel or take a hpt and confirm and then call him. Good luck!

 

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