High Chance Risk Of Pregnancy

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TehProgamer - May 1

Hello, this is my 1st time on these forums and i would like to thank creators of this website. Yesterday, April 30, I had s_x with my GF and we did it w/o protection. At first I was reluctant but she assured me that she was "SAFE." I then soon found out that it was the 11th day of her cycle and her cycle is about 28-30 days so panic and paranoia struck me but she's still assuring me that she's safe. So, w/o her knowing, i browsed the web and using (A LOT)of online fertility calcs it said that she was fertile (OMG)! I performed withdrawal 2x (coz we made it 2x and has around 11-18% failure rate) and im sure that i didnt came inside, but i know that pre-ejaculation fluid contains sperm that is always enough to impregnate her... I remember when I "pulled" my thing off that my member is covered with a milky white substance, after some researching I have concluded that it is "cervical mucus" and having this means that you are fertile (11th day) and nearing the most fertile days (and having an egg white CM)... Anyway here is/are my question(s)... 1. What chances can a woman having a 28-30 cycle be pregnant when she had s_x on the 11th day of her cycle? high? med? low? 2. in conjunction with #1, i performed withdrawl 2x and sure that i didnt "spill" inside, what are the chances that she can be preggie? high? med? low? 3. when can i use those urine tests? 2 weeks after he ovulation? 1 month delayed? 2? 3? 4. is there anything i can do to know ASAP if she's pregnant w/o resorting to the doctor? thanks in advance...

 

nkl - May 1

very very very high chance of impregnating you gf. WHY would you ever have s_x without protection unless you wanted a child. She can take a urine test about the day she is due for an accurate reading. Some gals dont show positive until several weeks after a missed period. You can not do anything until that time to know if she is pregnant as the pregnancy hormone that is measured for the pregnancy by the urine tests dont work that fast. I suggest you both go to a clinic and get some counselling and have her start acting her lifestyle as if she is pregnant. That means no drugs, alcohol, smoking, start taking folic acid incase she is pregnant and eating a healthy diet. If she is not pregnant be more careful next time. Put her on the pill and use condoms a s a back up. Good luck

 

Jessy - May 1

you won't get a positive reading from a home pregnancy test until I'd say 6 weeks after she has concieved (the s_xual act) if positive, she would then be 6 weeks pregnant and you will be the father of a child with a heartbeat....if you don't want it...let her have it and/or give it up for adoption..either way...be supportive, responsible and honorable towards her and the living being inside...if you can't be responsible w/s_x...get ready to be "Daddy"!! Or just get married before you have s_x again...be committed if you're going to have s_x man!!

 

TehProgamer - May 1

very, very, very high chance??? ... oh no... so she can take a urine test on the day she should have her next period right? it's still less than 48 hours till we "DID" it, i guess there is still time to "prevent" things... 24 hours to go... but even the largest drugstore here in our country doesnt sell 0.75 levonogestrel, all they sell is this 28-day pills containing 0.125mcg of levonorgestrel... im not ready to be a father... emotionally and financially... OMG...

 

TehProgamer - May 1

i meant 0.75 mg and 125 mcg

 

Kylee - May 1

aww you poor boy if you need anyone to talk to you can talk to me or email me sweetestsin0149... i've had a scare and im kinda nervous now soo if you need anything you can talk to me

 

TehProgamer - May 1

just came from our family doctor where I requested some "morning after pills," to my dismay she did not give any because my 24 hours is up and the term "morning after" means 24 hours ( or so) after, today is already 48 hours... she also gave me a lecture on reproductive health, etc, etc, the chances of conceiving, the factors, when to use a urine exam, what probable gender should my baby be if she conceives, etc, etc... I really dont want this baby right now, i want to have a kid when im ready, right now im not... i dont know why she forced me to do it even if we have no protection, she adamantly said that she was safe and she lied abt the day of her cycle (which is 11th i found out)... maybe she really wants me to be her husband...

 

Kylee - May 1

really... are there any other pills that could work seeing that it is like only 48 hours today?? you should check to see?

 

TehProgamer - May 1

I havent slept in 2 days thinking about this... i think i will just have to accept the possibility and just wait for the confirmation... I really am not ready, emotionally and financially but I will try my best... Hope it's a boy if she does conceive...

 

TehProgamer - May 1

@Kylee > il try going to an obgyne clinic a few hours from now and see if they have levonogestrel (levonelle-2) which is WHO approved for EC's (Emergency Contraceptions). i heard that it is 90% effective if given within 72 hours of unprotected s_x...

 

TehProgamer - May 1

funny, she still admantly says that she WAS safe and i stop worrying like $hit! is it possible that i seem to more know than her? she's counting day 1 as the last day of her bleeding which contradicts EACH and EVERY other online resource that i have come up with... *sigh*

 

kylee - May 1

ya... wow you do know more than she does and good thing she does have you to help her or else who knows... you can im me if you wanna talk im 19 and can kinda relate right now at blondbabi788 on aim or sweetestsin0149

 

Kylee - May 1

you should also be careful what websites your getting your information from cuz some could be false information... but i don't know you should just try to get the ec's asap and good luck im here for you and try to think everything will work out in the end i know it will you seem like a very mature kind of guy to be doing this and dealing with it instead of running away from it

 

Kylee - May 1

your making me nervous lol... tell me how everything goes i wish you and your girlfriend the best and i will be praying for you guys

 

TehProgamer - May 2

just came from a gynecologist and from a drugstore, the gynecologist told me that he was a devout christian and giving me such drugs will induce an abortion (a__suming that she has conceived already), he also gave me a 98% chance of concepcion (wow! hope for nothing), so i turned my back and walked away... also, i came from the country's largest drugstore chain (again) and they have no supply of levonelle-2-(levonorgestrel)... it's already 50 hours since we did it, and im becoming hopeless... <BR> and to confess, she's not my GF... my real GF went somewhere far and she will be devastated if she knows that i have impregnated someone... i know that she will break our relationship and my life is going into the drain... i never had this kind of situation where the number of people that will get hurt will be many... if this is Go'ds way for paying for my sins then i will accept it head-on, I know my life will be ruined but i will vow to fight back as long as i can.... if i ever have this kid i wish that it would the silver lining amongst all this trouble that im going through... i hope that it will be a boy and i will do whatever it takes to get custody... <BR> thanks anyway for the people who have supported me even though i dont know your real names and ident_tes, right now im crying in front my monitor as i write this because of grief pressure, anxiety, and lack of sleep for 2 days... i know some of you may be saying "HAHAHA serves you right!," i know i deserve it, but i do hope that somtime in the future everything will turn out fine... @kylee > thank you very much, you are very supportive, i wish i can hug you right now so i can have the strength to go through this whole mess... i will try to email you regularly abt what's happening to me and the girl using the email add u gave me... <BR> thank you... everybody...

 

kylee - May 2

even tho hes a christian doesn't he still have to give you the drugs considering its your ultimate choice?? wow im sooo sorry and i know it doesn't seem like it now but everything always happens for a reason and everything will turn out ok in the end... keep me posted and good luck.. im here for you if you ever wanna chat or if you ever need anyone to talk to

 

woah - May 2

The programmer---wow. Prayers will be with you. Prayers will definitely be with you.

 

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