How To Tell A Parent Who Is Negative About Everything

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BJ - August 6

I am 24 my mom hates foreighners and guess what my boyfriend of about a year is a foreighner my mom doesn't know about him and to make it worst maybe I want a baby by him and i might be pregnant now but don't know how to tell my mom everything she has told me in the past if I were to get with a fireghner she would never speak to me again

 

loren - July 20

hi Bj!FIRST THING U HAVE TO DO IS TO MAKE SURE THAT URE PREGNANT(U SAID I MIGHT BE).MAKE A TEST OR GO TO THE DOCTOR.AFTER U KNOW FOR SURE TAK E UR TIME AND THINK EXACTLY THE WORDS THAT U LL USE TO TELL UR MOM.PROMISE URSELF THAT U LL BE VERY PATIENT WITH HER AMD U LL NOT GET ANGRY NO MATTER WHAT SHE TELLS U.TRY TO EXPLAIN HER HOW HAPPY U RE FOR THIS BABY.AND U WANT TO SHARE UR HAPINESS WITH HER BECAUSE SHE IS SO SPECIAL FOR U.TELL HER SMTH THAT WILL WARM HER HERTH.FOR EXAMPLE THAT U LL NAME UR BABY BY HER NAME(JUST IF U REALLY WANT IT).IM SURE IN THE END SHE WILL BE THRILLED BY UR HAPINESS AND SHE WILL ACCEPT UR BABY AND HIS FATHER.NO MOTHER IN THE WORLD WILL TURN BACK TO HER GIRL IN SUCH AN IIMPORTANT MOMENT OF HER LIFE NO MATTER WHAT SHE HAS TOLD U BEFORE.GOOD LUCK

 

bj - July 20

Thank you Lauren, Yeah I just really want to be able to tell her about the boyfriend I have had many but he is by all means the greatest man I have ever met and obviously I care about hurting her feelings but i want to think about myself and me starting my own life

 

Nicole - August 6

Do what makes you feel good, you live your life for yourself not your parents. If you mom really loves you she wont be able to stop talking to you if she does her loss right

 

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