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molly - August 25th, 2005 5:17 PM

Hi everyone, i just wanted to let you know my situation so i can get some opinions i have been on other sites and havent got a response so please feel free to give me some advice or let me know if you have heard of this! okay here goes. i had a missed m/c june 13 at 14 weeks,,, i was totally devestated. i went back on the pill right away and decide to wait to ttc. after 3 weeks i wanted ttc, i stoppped the pill and had af july12 for 6 days. i usually had a 28-31 day cycle. If i am correct i think i ovulated on august 12 instead of getting af.....not sure if this makes sense to ovualte so late after af. anyway i totally feel pregnant, sore bb and sometimes i feel nauseated and dizzy. so tomorrow will be 2 weeks from ovulation and i had a BFN this am...very dissappointed. do you think that i could be pregnant or am i just fooling myself?? I have an appointment with my DR tomorrow. i called him and he said that sometimes it takes a while to get the pill out of your systtem and that i probably didnt even ovulate this dissappointing.

kim - August 26th, 2005 7:44 AM


Erica - August 26th, 2005 10:56 AM

Well ladies I went to the my dr apontment yesterday they did an urine test and it came back negative but she gave me an blood test because she do not know why I have not recieved my period for two months so she said that it is possible that it just is not showing up in my urine also they found a 3 centimeter cyst on my ovary but she said that it should be going away but i have to go back in 6 weeks and get another ultrasound to see if it is gone

r - August 26th, 2005 11:47 AM

hi erica i am 4 weeks late, all tests neg doc wont do a thing, said i have to wait another 2 weeks to see if i have missed my 3rd period. i feel pg, loads of lotion discharge cramps when i missed my period, high temps, high cervix, gas,headaches nausea right now which has just come on,bloatedness,and i dont know what to do the hospital wont listen to me either they told me to go to accident and emergency but the wait there is 4 hours

Erica - August 26th, 2005 12:26 PM

Hello R how are well my period is five weeks late and i took an urine test came back negative what u need to do is get an blood test because my dr said sometimes it might not show up in your urine but just your blood also u might need to get tested for thyroids she just test me for that yesterday the results will be back for the both of them on monday she also did some other test, well you need to proubley switch DR s because it seems like your DR do not care about what is goign on she is supposed to investigate the problem!!! But some dr do not care they just tell u whatever and wam bam thank you mam and that is it they do not care about the concerns ot wel being of their patients they just want the money so maybe u really need to get someone else but if u have any questions I can try to help you

Erin - August 26th, 2005 12:43 PM

Erica, I know the waiting is SO HARD to get results from blood tests. Have they mentioned the next step if the blood test is negative? Did she say anything else that could be causing the delay in af?

Erica - August 26th, 2005 1:04 PM

Well Erin she did the thyroid test and some other test on me to see what is going on , But yes erin I am so nervous I am aslo upset becasue I have been trying so many years and nothing is happening I do not have any luck at all it is really hurtful it seems like the people that do not want to get pregnant they is able to get pregnant but the people wants it really bad can not get pregnant that is really crazy but I am just praying to god to bless us so we can ge pregnant

Holly - August 27th, 2005 12:51 AM

Hi Erica, Sorry to hear about your cyst. So your dr. said it would go away on its own? They're not giving you something to get rid of it? I hope you thyroid is alright. It sounds like the cyst was the cause of your pregnancy symptoms? Don't give up on the baby making, it will happen. Good things do happen to good people. Hang in there!

Sdgirl - August 27th, 2005 2:36 AM

Hello everyone. Can someone help me on some newbie advice? What do they say about caffine? I'm a huge coffee and coke person. I think I will be fine cutting it out if I have to. I've done it before when I went on diets. This is going to be my first child and I'm very nervous. I have not told anyone yet. I want to wait until my second trimester to tell anyone. I have a high risk pregnancy because I have epilepsy and Myasthenia Gravis. They are both under control, but it still puts me a the high risk level. I hope my meds won't hurt my baby. I will have my first appt Sept 21st. I'm very excited. What kind of things should I expect when I go there? Are they going to do an ultrasound? My boyfriend will be going with me. Any advice would be much appreciated!

Erica - August 27th, 2005 7:56 AM

Hello Holly well every female get cyst after they ovulate that is normal but I just have to go back in 6-8 weeks to see if it is growing or is it going to disappear she gave me some medication that will make me start my period to dish out the cervix but she said even though I got that cyst I still should be coming on my period and that i missed my period for to long and she think that the cyst does not have anything to do with it , but my results for the blood pregnancy test and the other test will be back monday so I will let u all know what is going on so make sure u pray for me please and thanks everyone for your support but yes holly we will keep trying if we arew not pregnant

Holly - August 27th, 2005 9:08 AM

Hello, sdgirl, caffine is not recommended durning pregnancy. I think the limit is one cup of coffee per day. I did have a doctor tell me not to quit caffine all at once though because the shock caffine withdrawl can have on your body can harm the baby worse then the caffine itself. So gradually ween yourself from it. Erica, I don't understand, didn't you get a ultrasound? If so wouldn't they have looked for the baby? I'm just a little confused, if not how did they find the cysts?

Erica - August 27th, 2005 10:18 AM

Hello holly well the ultasound that i got was schedule a long time ago before i even thought i might have been pregnant or missed my period the reason that ultrasound was scheduled is because I was having pains in my stomach that is when I had found out I have BV and then I got the gel to clear it up then after it cleared my stomach did not hurt anymore but I still just wen t on ahead and got the ultrasound anyway but when i told the tech that I might be pregnant and she said that I had to be six weeks or further for her to be able to see the baby but I do not know what is going on but i will find out sooner or later

Sdgirl - August 27th, 2005 2:40 PM

Thank you Holly for the advice. That is a great idea to wean myself off of caffine. I have been taking naps during that day when I feel tired. Luckily I have not had the morning sickness. But its never too late, so I don't want to jinx myself. Thanks again for the advice. Sdgirl

Holly - August 27th, 2005 11:01 PM

Hello Erica, That's weird, I thought they'd at least be able to see a sac by now, but I know how those u/s techs can be, I guess they're not legally supposed to say anything to you. Anyway, thats the way the u/s tech was in the hospital when I had a miscarrige over 8 years ago. I was so upset, and he just made it a million times worse by not answering any of my questions and telling me that the doctor would have to talk to me. Ugh! Anyway, I've had a weird day, This afternoon I had a hard time breathing. I'm an asthmatic, but I haven't had asthma problems for a long time, I haven't had to use an inhailer for months, in fact i have no idea where mine is, my mother in law had to bring me hers. It feels like my diaphram is being pushed up into my chest. My constipation is getting worse and my nipples are leaking! Wtf???? I cannot understand how I'm not pregnant. I haven't b___stfed for over 3 years now, I just don't understand. I'm calling planned parenthood on Monday and scheduale a pelvic. I've also been having these little twinges of pain in my abdomin.

Ericq - August 29th, 2005 8:47 AM

Hello holly

Ericq - August 29th, 2005 8:50 AM

Hello holly how are you had me laughing with that wtf?? that was funny but yeah they will not tell you have to wait until your dr tell you they is doing that your dr can get payed everytime they see u. So have you gotten your period yet? wow you know what it is very weird that you are saying about the astma becasue i having been not able to breath i will have to go outide and breath because I have been short of breath it has been really crazy!!! Well I have not came on my period yet but I am going to call them and get my results


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