I Can T Do It

6 Replies
mandy - August 10

I'm 17 and pregnant....and me and the father are not togeather anymore but i'm still sooo in love with him, and i think about him 24/7 and its putting me into a deep depression...how do you stop loving the father of your baby???please help me out

 

Nay - August 8

you will have a constant reminder of him with your baby. I dont know how you stop loving him, I know Ill always have a certain love for my ex because he is the father of my children. But the Love I had for him has faded away. It will take time. Keeping away and reminding yourself of the reasons you arent together anymore help. Good luck.

 

mandy - August 8

thx nay

 

Tanya - August 8

Mandy, Nay is so right!!! you are young, first loves are very hard to move on from especially when you are carrying his child, I feel the same as nay, i sometimes wish my x husband would crawl in a hole and die, but i have a love for him that will forever be there since he helped bring our two wonderful chldren into the world. You need to think of your baby, depression is just not healthy for you and your baby, you are strong, you can make it without him, and you will survive!

 

MANDA - August 9

HI MANDY, I AM IN THE SAME SITUATION AS YOU. I SPLIT UP WITH MY BABIES DAD WHEN I WAS 2 MONTHS PREGNANT. THEN WHEN THE BABY WAS 3 MONTHS OLD I GOT BACK WITH THE BABIES DAD. NOW I AM RECONSIDERING ARE RELATIONSHIP. HE IS A HEAVY DRUG USER. I TOLD HIM TODAY THAT I HAD ENOUGH. IT IS HARD. BUT I THINK I'LL MANAGE

 

mandy - August 9

hey manda and tanya,,,,yeah you guys r probably right...i just hope one day i'll get over him

 

mandy - August 10

is there anyone else going through this??

 

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