I Feel So Ugly Today

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Sam - April 29

Do you girls ever feel just terrible about yourself for apparently no reason? I woke up this morning and looked at myself in the mirror. I feel a hundred times fatter than I did yesterday! My breakouts on my face look worse. My hair is limp and dull.I just do not feel pretty. Do you ever get that?

 

Karen - April 29

Oh yea. I looked at my tighs the other day and was "OH MY GOD" I definatly have to start walking now and am even unfortable in skirts now. This morning I was looking on my face and I have dark circles around my eyes I feel like I aged about 5 years. All part of it I guess. HAHA.

 

Jena - April 29

YES! I feel like I'm a whale and I'm only 8.5 weeks and not showing... some days I feel okay but on others it's another story!

 

Sam - April 29

I'm showing alot for how far along I am. It's not the belly that bothers me though. I think the belly's cute. It's the love handles, the upper arm flab, and the rear end that gets me. I've also got this weird thigh thing going on. I've always had a little bit of cellulite, but this is getting ridiculous!!!! Icky. I just want to crawl back into bed....

 

KrisD - April 29

Oh Ya! I never had cellulite... Now I will never be putting on a bathing suit again. The other day I caught a good look at my rear end... for me its the "thuddocks" - not the b___t, not the thigh... It's right under my b___t. I went to the doctor yesterday and she told me that I gained too much! Will I ever get back to my old me? This morning, nothing fit. How much bigger can a gal get!

 

~S~ - April 29

Ohhhhhh yes. I've even had these days before I was pregnant. I think every woman has them, I even know of a few of my guy friends that experience this. But I've been finding that I'm having these days more often now that I'm pregnant, I'm sure it has everything to do with the weight gain. I feel totally sloppy because I can't fit much of my normal clothes anymore and I have to wear clothes that are comfy and somewhat lose fitting, otherwise I feel extreamly uncomfortable all day. Sometimes I feel so bad for my bf, because I always used to look my best, wearing cute little skirts, little heels and such, but now it's like sweat pants and a T-shirt. Oh yeah, I'm 24 weeks. I'm not as big as I thought I would be, I'm actually smaller than most pregnant woman, but the belly is definitly there, the hips have gotten wider and A LOT more noticable and the thighs...oooh man, I don't even want to talk about those. Lets just say they can have an address of their own.

 

~S~ - April 29

Oh yes, I forgot to mention the cellulite. GROSS! I mean, I've always had a bit, but my goodness, this is crazy. My thighs look like the moon with a million crators all over it. I hate it, if it's not bad enough that my thighs are bigger than they have every been, I've gotta have cellulite all over them. Oh and someone say something about the underarm flab. Uck! I've got that too. I just noticed it the other day. Not only that, but I noticed BACK FAT! I wanted to roll my eyes and crawl into a deep dark hole for the next 4 months.

 

leslie - April 29

ok ladies this is what you do, Get your high heels out and wear them with some jeans (doesn't have to look fancy) also do your hair different today! It always helps me!! When I have high heels it makes me feel s_xier, and taller I like it!! GL

 

Sam - April 29

s, I needed that laugh! I think if I can keep people from looking below my belly, I'll be fine. Maybe I'll start wearing neon orange tank tops and shirts with pictures on the belly just to keep everyone's attention off the "thuddocks." I used to have a really cute b___t, dang it! You know what else is bothersome, my hands and feet are sooooo dry all the time. I give myself a pedicure ofetn, b/c I love to wear cute sandals. Before, my pedicure would last 4 or 5 days. Now, i'm lucky if I dont have lizard feet by noon! Ugh. I know I complain too much, but if i have to deal with all this weird body stuff for this little one, no prob.... :)

 

D - April 29

By the end of the day, I usually forget about how I look... but first thing in the morning, its a rude awakening! My bathroom has large mirrors... (It had them when we bought the house) so, getting in the shower every morning, I get the FULL view.... Ugh.

 

monica - April 29

I try not to look at mirrors too much. I have days when I think I look cute and I have days when I feel fat and ugly.

 

D - April 29

when the mirrors are on more than one wall, you have to face them in the process, and you are glow in the dark white.... its pretty hard to miss! My b___t bugs me the most...

 

~S~ - April 29

I agree with the mirrior thing, I have mirrors all over my freakin bedroom. When I wake up and roll out of bed, the first thing I see is ME through my dresser mirror, then I get up to go brush my teeth, what do I see? ME again, through HUGE and LONG bathroom counter mirrors. After I shower I go to my lotion, purfume and powder counter and what's there?? a huge mirror and then when I walk to my closet it's mirrors again, but this time it's worse because they're full sized door mirrors. My god, talk about a nightmare. My bf and I used to LOVE using mirrors while having s_x, we'd have them all around his bed and of cousre, they're already around my bedroom, but now it's like "turn those lights OFF we will not be having a peep show tonight or EVER for the next 4 months." haha.

 

leslie - April 29

There are mirrors that they sell at the store for like 10 dollars and everything looks longer and skinnier, I used to hate them bec. I am soo skinny and in it I looked like a toothpick..but maybe I am going to need to buy one in a few months!!

 

Heidi - April 29

I swear my face changed or something. I just don't "look" the same. I don't know if I have more fat in my face or what. My hair drove me nuts when I had morning sickness so I chopped it off to my chin so I didn't have to fuss over it anymore. I regret doing that now that I'm over the morning sickness. Now my roots are coming out and I can't really dye it while pregnant. My a__s looks like cottage cheese and my thighs! I was always so thin but all of a sudden I feel like such a ugly duckling. I don't have acne problems so I'm lucky there I guess. My jeans are getting super tight. I'm down to two pair that fit. I'm still going to the gym in the hopes that the cellulite doesn't get any grosser looking!!!!!

 

Karen - April 29

girls girls girls, why did ya have to mention the celulite ting? I was not even going to go there. S I am eight there with you, had a little before but know mine look like "unneded flour". I am going to try to start walking or something. I use to love the cute skirts etc but now nor f**king way. I already have a work out and eating plan in play to start when the little one comes. Cause God knows I can remain like this forever. I hate feeling and looking "FAT". Dont get me wrong I am not into the perfect skinny look either. I like the solid firm looks. Nice strong looking legs, abs, arms. I want start working out with weights again. Cant wait. I wanna be a s_xy mama. Oh yea my arms seem to be developing Cel as well. What the F**k is going on here. Why cant the belly just grow then go back down when the baby comes, and why cant those suckers that caused this get fat, celulite and feel ugle too ? Oh yea and the dam labour PAINS TOO !!!!

 

monica - April 29

I moved during this pregnancy so I never put up my mirrors. I only put up one.

 

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