I Need Help Baby Having Baby

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jessica89 - March 6

IM 16 AND THINK IM PREGNANT, IM A MONTH LATE AND HAVING SYMPTOMS OF NAUSEA AND b ___st FIRMNESS AND SORENESS AND CHANGES IN COLOR OF THE NIPPLES MY DISCHARGE IS THICKER AND MORE THAN USUAL I TOOK A TEST AND IT CAME OUT POSITIVE, IM GOING TO THE DR TOMORROW, DO YOU THINK I AM? COULD I BE? HOW WILL I TELL MY PARENTS? HELP PLEASE!

 

Tess - March 6

Cheer up....Its not the end of the world. But I know for a fact that your parents would be upset w/ this situation (who wouldnt??) Well....my best advice is if the hpt test came out positive then yes, your are pregnant....theyre 99.9% accurate based on what my nurse told me when I found out I was pg 7 mos. ago. (Im currently 29-30 wks pg) Blood test is for sure 100% accurate. I would suggest to wait or find a right timing to tell your folks that youre pg. best of luck to you.

 

fltjt705 - March 6

I was 17 when I found out I was pregnant. Yes, all those symptoms are pregnancy related expecially the color of your nipple. Having a baby at that age is one of the hardest things to deal with besides getting good grades. You must tell you parents regardless if they get upset, this is a life growing inside you and you have options, tess is right, it isn't the end of the world. I will tell you from experience my life was alot harder because when I found out, I had already moved out because my mom and I didn't get along and even when she found out she offerd me no help. Thank god for my grandparents, I wasn't able to finnish high school or do the normal things teenagers get to do. I had to get my GED which was okay but without a good job my life just was so hard. Tell your parents and make your decisions from that point on, atleast youll have a better since of what you want to do. Good luck with this situation, it's very scary. if you need to ask me anything you can e-mail me at [email protected]

 

jg - March 6

Jessica, of course your parents will be upset but if you are upfront and honest then you can deal with this situation as a family. They might just surprise you and give you all the help and support that you will need. I would tell them ASAP rather than keep it from them as you will just worry about it if you don't and that is not good for you or your baby. Remember to tell your parents you love them and respect them and need their help. Try not to take their initial reactions to heart as they may say things in the heat of the moment that they don't really mean, just like you would if they gave you a shock. Get your mum to go with you to your doctors appointment as you will really need her in this time. Good luck little missy.

 

PrincessGervais - March 9

you know what you should do pray about and if it is god's will that you turn out to be pregneat then its fine. my advise is tell your parents when i found out i was pregenat man i was freakin then i held out on telling them for lilke three weeks then i thought about it is better to tell them now yes they will scream at you and get upset then they will have to accept it. my parents did not talk to me for like two three weeks when they find out they ignored me and everything but i knew it was goind to past. now i can't get them off my back cause they are always asking me how the baby, what am i doing,how am i doing. trust they will get over it. god bless you and remember ot always pray about becaue the lord never puts you in a situation he knows you can't handle.

 

molliejoy - March 11

My mom was 15 when I was born. She got alot of help from her parents. Talk to them and they will come to understand. You will have to sacrifice alot, but children are worth it. I turned out fine. I'm 23 now with 3 kids. My mom is one of the youngest grandma's I kow. Just take it day by day. It may be a blessing in disguise. Good Luck. P.s. My mom finished school and went to college. You can do it!!!

 

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