Insecurities Of My Baby S Daddy

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Crystal - December 28

Hi , My name is Crystal , I'm currently 22 weeks pregnant... Within the last 4-6 weeks, i have been suffering major depression and i am insecure with my boyfriend... about two weeks ago it got my attention when i found out he had been smoking and going out without telling me or telling me other wise... Now I feel as though I can not trust him, and i doubt everyting he says or dose... Is this normal when your pregnaunt>? E-mail: [email protected]

 

stacy - December 30

Hi Crystal, it is totally normal to feel anger towards the other person or the dad. You may look at him and want to yell at him or you just hate him. Most women that are pregnant resent the man that got them pregnant, you have so much anger towards them because they got you pregnant. If you are together he should be at home with you and not out with his buddies. You also have to think about what he is going through as well. He has mixed emotions, your getting close to your day your half way there, He could be scared as well and that is the way he feels he needs to relive his stress. I hope you come to terms with him. good luck

 

t - December 30

I would say its normal I feel the same way about mine and I am due any day now. But I havent been trusting him at all. I belive its somthing to with being pregant. Well good luck.

 

LORENA - December 31

HELLO CRYSTAL, I FEEL FOR YOU I'M 2MONTHS PREGNANT AND I AM DEPRESSED ALSO. BEFORE I GOT PREGNANT MY BF WAS STRESSING ME OUT ANYWAYS BUT NOW THAT I'M PREG. I STRESS EVEN MORE IT'S THE EMOTIONAL PHASE YOU GO THREW WHILE YOUR PREGNANT. I HAVE A 5YR OLD WHILE I WAS PREG. WITH HIM IT WASN'T THAT BAD BECAUSE I NEVER HAVE A REASON TO STRESS WITH HIS FATHER. YOUR BF SHOULD BE MORE COMPASSIONATE TO YOUR FEELINGS LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, AND THAT IT'S NORMAL DURING THE PREGNANCY.

 

Tamekia - December 31

Hey there Crystal This is very normal. Have you talked to your doctor about how you are feeling?

 

leelee - December 31

dump him

 

janee - August 6

how long does it take before your stomach get hard

 

To LeeLee - August 6

sigh !

 

Help!!!! NEW DADDY NEEDS HELP - August 30

Hey guys just want your opinion. I’ve read that you guys resent the men who got you prego, is that true? I was away for 6(the first part of her prego) weeks and I came back and everything seemed to change. She said she did mot think she loved me but we still run around, She was very distant I tried to be there and help her out, be sympathetic and understanding about what she was going throw but all she keeps saying is she needs her space. I’m really excited about being a daddy but she will hardly let me have any say about getting stuff for the baby. It got to the point the other day we were fighting and I told her I didn’t want to be with her anymore. I don’t feel like that but I don’t know what else to do, I want so much to be apart of this prego but she won’t let me. I need advice!!!!! And away to tell her I didn’t mean what I said but that I’m having a hard time dealing with the way she is treating me. Oh also sometimes she talks like we have a future and other times she talks like we don’t.

 

Missa - August 30

I still hate my x. I can;t say hate dislike him greatly and at night I dislike him more, for the person he became. He once was a nice guy, but he ended up being a cheater who left me before marriage. who hurt me through my first pregnancy and who doesn't know now. If you have insecurities you might want to confront him, not in an angry manner but in a way where you can tell him that you need him there to help you, to love you. And not to make you feel so insecure. him smoking might just be because of stress. Men react to pregnancy differently then women. We do get moody and upset. I am just happy that I love myself and my little belly as much as I do to be able to do it myself. You might want to talk to someone about the way you feel. Good luck to you.

 

old guy with animals - August 30

old mcdonald had a lee ei ei ei o with a leelee here and a leelee there here lee there a lee everywhere a leelee .... this forum needs a 'dump him' b___ton . It gets used so often

 

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