Knocked Up But Used Protection

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notnow - June 6

anyone find themselves knocked up even though you used protection? I feel so trapped. How does this happen? I'm 13wks with my fourth. My husband is thrilled. I hate it. He took me off the pill in January.

 

LadyD - June 6

How'd that happen? What type of protection did you use? Although you are not too happy, I will say congrats because children are a blessing. Your husband can't force you to come off of the pill,why didn't y'all discuss it before you stopped taking them if you did not want another child? If you

 

notnow - June 6

We used condoms. My husband is over protective and as I'm finding out very controlling. We discussed it in January and I said maybe. He called family doctor and they told him I should be off the pill and taking prenatal. In february I got a promotion, at that time I told him another baby was not something I wanted at this time, I had been wanting this promotion for 2 yrs. and I wanted to pursue it to it's fullest opportunities. He was furious. On mar 16th for my 30th he planned a romantic surprise night at a bed & breakfast. He didn't pack any condoms which we have been using since January. I made him leave and go get some. We only had s_x a few times between 3/7 and 3/16th. My lmp was 3/1 and in april the doctor said my conception date was probably 3/16. I feel a little trapped.

 

LadyD - June 6

I am sorry to hear your situation notnow. Damn, I hate men like that. Not to bad mouth him or anything, but it's your choice too and I understand where u are coming from. He probably popped a hole in the condom. It happens. I don't know what else to tell you. I feel sorry for you that you are now forced into raising another baby & you weren't ready yet. Best of luck,honey. Just remember: blessing.

 

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