My Tubes Have Been Tied For 4 1 2 Yrs

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hopeful01 - May 22

Hello. im new to this. I had a tubal ligation done 4 1/2 yrs ago. i have 3 kids. all boys. Divorced from my husband, met a new man, a man worth being with, He wants to have a baby with me, but as i said, i had a tubal ligation. but for the past week, my bladder all of the sudden is weak, my back is killing me, my face, and feet are swollen in the mornings, and now for two days, my br___t are tender, swollen, achey, and sore to the touch. It hurts even to adjust my bra. I guess it may be wishful thinking that i am pregnant, because i want another child so badly, and at times, i feel the squirmy, fluttery feeling in my lower abdomen.. And i dont tell him about it, because, i think he will just give me that " it's not possible look" and its disapointing to him too. So before i get off topic, i just would love to know, is it mearly possible for me to concieve while heving my tubes tied?? (break it to me easy huh..) :(

 

Malica - May 22

Sorry, but there's really no way to break it to you easy -- the chances of you getting pregnant after having your tubes tied is about the same chances of getting pregnant while faithfully using both the pill and condoms at the same time. It's one of the most effective methods of birth control. Depending on how it was done, it might be a possibility to have it surgically reversed but I don't know of any insurance companies that cover it so it's very pricey.

 

Teddyfinch - May 23

well, it's not unheard of, but depending on if you're late for your period and how late you are, you wouldn't feel any fluttering yet. just take a test to put your mind at ease and it's worth looking into possibly getting your tubal reversed if that's what you guys want.

 

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