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Marie - December 2

Well, I have a 32-24 day cycle I should ovulate from days 16-19 well, I had s_x on day 12 and he did c_m in me.Then I had s_x on day 17 but this time he didn't c_m in me,instead he c_mmed on my stomach once he got it all out I whipped all of it on my private area (Lol) and then stood up, I think I'm not pregnant because doesn't sperm immediately die once it hits the air and if you stand up it won't give the sperm enough time to actually make it into your fallopian tubes?If, anyone could tell me if I could still get pregnant from this please do! Thanks

 

lilmama - December 2

no, sperm does not die when it hits the air, and standing will not affect the sperm that do stay inside of you, some will come out, but a lot will stay in and start swimming away

 

Amy - December 3

Sperm are more complex and stronger then we like to believe! No sperm doesn't die when it hits air, it takes a little longer then that, think of 'fish out of water'. Do you wan't to get pregnant?

 

Marie - December 4

Thank ya'll but I need more answers from diff.people!

 

Lisa - December 4

Does your boyfriend/husband know you are trying to conceive? Sperm will last 2 hours outside of the mans body. I doubt very much that you can fall pregnant by trying to put the sperm inside you once he has ejaculated outside. Maybe you need to first establish wether or not this man wants to be a parent???

 

tiffani - December 4

Technically speaking, yes, you could be pregnant. Sperm DOES NOT die once it hits air. Sperm swim, so they could have made their way even if you stood up right after, but like anything else, it's always more difficult swimming "upstream." Are you trying to get pregnant? Is your boyfriend aware of this? If so, why did he ejaculate on your stomach?

 

D - December 6

If sperm died when they hit air, they would not be able to check for a male's sperm count as he would ejaculate into a plastic cup and not a wet enviroment. I agree with tiffany, are you sure he wants to become a parent? That might be something you want to talk to him about before you make any more attempts to impregnate yourself. Anyway, good luck.

 

*Bear* - December 18

I am so confused right now. I need help. Me & this guy had been dating for like 3 months and then we broke up. I guess we decided to stay Friends With Benefits...(wowww)...bad idea. We were just fooling around one night...and we almost, well I mean. He kind of stuck it in me...but only...not even all the way in. I don't think he had c_m b4 that....and then afterwards...I had made him c_m but he wasn't near my private area. I don't know what the hell I am thinking...I am so paranoid that I am pregnant. I want to take a home pregnancy test but what if it turns out positive??...What if I have to get an abortion...does it cost alot?? Would I tell my parents? Help me...let me know ASAP! PLEASE!

 

Jim (help me?!?!?!?!?) - December 27

I am in the same situation. I was having s_x with my girlfriend from behind and I pulled out. I came on her a__s and some ran down towards her v____a. I wiped it up. Can she possibly get pregnant this way. Please some answer.

 

KM - December 27

Jim, yes she can. sperm can swim well.You shouldn't rely on the pull out method. I suggest if youre going to continue having s_x, and dont want a kid, you get some birth control.

 

KM - December 27

Bear, any time you have s_x without protection theres a chance you could be pregnant.first of all, it doesn't even matter if it went "in" or not, sperm are good swimmers and can survive around the v____a.There is no way to tell if he had prec_m or not.If you do take a test, and are pregnant (although I think the odds are in your favour) then you need to take responsibility for your actions and carefully make a deicision.remember your choice will affect you for the rest of your life no matter what you decide. once you are pregnant your life has already changed.There is no way you HAVE to get an abortion. You have the right to keep or adopt your baby. Not even your parents can force you into it, you can take legal action because it is an offence to force an abortion on a woman. whatever choice you make is what YOU will have to live with for the rest of your life, not them.Abortions are free some places if you can find a nearby hospital that does them legally. If it is illegal where you live you will have to go to a private clinic.It will range anywhere from 300-800 dollars.

 

jo - January 7

what things will i have to take in the maternity hospital with me when i go in labour

 

KM - January 7

Depends what the hospital provides for you. This is what you need a__suming they give you nothing. -LOTS of maternity pads, also some b___st pads -a good fitting nursing bra. -several pairs of underwear you dontmind ruining -a robe or housecoat and slippers -if you dont want the wear the hospitals, a few of your own nighties -an outfit to go home in (u will still need maternity clothes) -all your toiliteries and stuff to shower with -uhmm a pen for filling out paperwork -carseat for baby -also bring several sleepers,undershirts,blankets, bibs diapers for baby -if you are b___stfeeding bring your b___stpump -lotion and a ma__sager are nice when you are in labour -warm socks -money for cafeteria food b/c hospital food is gross. You can also bring your own food and drink with ur name on it and they should have a fridge on the ward. Like I said the hospital will have mostly everything for baby except a going home outfit and stuff, and they will have pads and whatever for you probably.Call and find out what they supply.

 

Shonda - April 18

Me and my boyfriend were taking a bath and he ejaculated in the water, can I still get pregnant?

 

M - May 5

Well I did the same thing. I am married and I want to conceive. But he doesn't. I been faking the birth control pills and we go no condom at first then when he comes he wants a condom. After s_x I pretend like I have to throw away the trash and use the fresh sperm and place it in me. All of it. I know it is fourteen-18 days before your period to get pregnant. Because that is the only time a women ovulates. Yeah Mr. Spern can last 2 hours outside the body, hang out almost a week inside the body waiting for Ms. Egg to arrive, and live only up to 72 hours in just in the v____al pool so the chance of us getting pregnant are high.

 

MC - May 5

Well I did the same thing. I am married and I want to conceive. But he doesn't. I been faking the birth control pills and we go no condom at first then when he comes he wants a condom. After s_x I pretend like I have to throw away the trash and use the fresh sperm and place it in me. All of it. I know it is fourteen-18 days before your period to get pregnant. Because that is the only time a women ovulates. Yeah Mr. Spern can last 2 hours outside the body, hang out almost a week inside the body waiting for Ms. Egg to arrive, and live only up to 72 hours in just in the v____al pool so the chance of us getting pregnant are high.

 

mc - May 5

no if he came in water no you can't get pregnant

 

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