Please Help Me Im Going Crazy

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Kylee - May 1

Ok, me and the guy i was kinda together with at the time had a co ed sleep over... sooo just slept by eachother like in a bed... but he fell right asleep.. and we both had all our clothes on.. i coulodn't sleep but im still worried about getting pregnant cuz my last period only lasted 3 days instead of the usual 4 or 5.. nothiong happened i even asked him and he was like well you should know that nothing happened... but im still worried pelase hlep

 

Jessy - May 1

Hey you shouldn't worry unless you were drunk, high or a CRAZY HEAVY sleeper (I know some...nothin' gets 'em up!!) Either way...what on earth are you doing in a bed w/guys yer not even married to?? If you can even GET pregnant..what are you thinking??

 

kylee - May 1

well we all just kinda like slept with our dates.. but like nothing happened im just freaking out cuz my last period was like heavy the first 2days then the third day lighter then nothing by the fourth day

 

Misty - May 1

Unless you normally have a very long period then I wouldn't be worried about a period that lasted practically 4 days. I also really doubt that if your guy had done something that you wouldn't know about it. He would have had to undress you, do the act, then re-dress you. All without you noticing anything. Doubt that could happen unless you were perhaps on Zanex or Rufees(sp) or something else similar that the whole point of the drug is to pretty much make you forget everything. If you weren't then I am sure you were fine. And if you were on something like that and it turns out you are pregnant and your guy really did this then that is as good as rape and you should at the very least leave him if not turn him in to the police as well.

 

kylee - May 1

ya.. but can't like i get preg if i still had all my clothes on?

 

kylee - May 1

so if he did do that that would be rape?

 

Misty - May 1

If he was to have had actual s_x with you without your consent or knowledge then yes. A guy always needs to have the o.k to do something like that. I can see if you have been in a long relationship the guy knowing you would be o.k. with s_x and waking you up to it. But to do it all while you are asleep and then lie to you that he did it? In my eyes and likely in many others eyes as well that would be rape. But I am saying this as if he took your clothes off, had s_x with you, then put them back on. And unless you were on some serious drugs then I just seriously doubt something like that could have happened. If you both went to bed with your clothes on and woke up with them on then it is very unlikely that anything that would make you pregnant would have happened. Why are you with this guy though anyways if you don't trust what he says when he tells you he didn't do anything? I doubt anything happened and in that case you wouldn't be pregnant. Only if you were really into drugs that night would I continue wondering if anything happened. I don't think even a heavy sleeper would sleep through all of that. IF something happened it was drug related.

 

Misty - May 1

And yes, to the other question you can get pregnant with your clothes on, IF s____n gets all the way through your clothes and into your v____a. But, in that case your clothes would either still be wet or have a stain on them.

 

kylee - May 1

lol.. no i wasn't on any drugs or drinking that nite i don't drink... and i stayed up basicly the whole nite im just freaking out cuz of my last period it usualy lasts 5 days and it was like basicly 3 in a half i dunno

 

Misty - May 1

Well I'm pretty sure you are fine then. Periods sometimes don't come at all or come lighter then usual if you are under stress or exercising more or sometimes even a drastic change in diet can affect it from what I have heard. I always just felt lucky when my period didn't last a long time. GL. I am sure it isn't anything serious. But if you are worried then just call your doc. Sometimes serious things do cause changes in your period (I don't know what they are though). But you most likely just got lucky and had a light period. Pregnancy related light periods are much lighter than what you described. Heavy bleeding when it comes to pregnancy mormally means miscarriage.

 

To Kylee - May 1

Look yes sperm can go through your clothes but that does not happen a lot. Just stop worrying a bout your period thing im pretty sure everythings ok and if you were awake the whole night you know he didnt rape you

 

Kylee - May 1

misty.. you don't understand how much of a lifesaver you have been lol seriously i really appreciate your time in answering my questions and if you ever have any i'll be the first to answer thanks hun

 

kylee - May 1

ya but... what if he had pants on and so did i he was laying on his back i was laying on my side facing him... and sometimes away from him.. could he have ejaculated and coudl i still have like had some by me? and or in me? lol i prob sound stupid but i like worry all the time

 

Misty - May 1

:-) You are very welcome.

 

Misty - May 1

Haha, yes, just a bit of a worry wart. But that is o.k. For him to have ejaculated and it to have gotten all the way to your v____a you would have had to been laying right on top of him so it could actually have a chance to seep all the way through. Plus, he would have had a stain and likely still a wet spot on him, and the same with you. Chances are so slim it would be more likely for you to winthe lotto twice. :-)

 

kylee - May 1

lol... would there have been a stain on the bed/maitress too??

 

Misty - May 1

Most likely, but not definaltely. It would have only definately been on him and you.

 

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