Please Help Me Im Going Crazy

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Crystal B - March 15

Hey yall, I need help...PLEASE help me... I started ttc in janurary 06...and i thought that i was pregnat, have alot of symptoms and a late period, i took 2 hpts that came out positive, then i got 2 negitves..THEN today i started af.. :( ....do yall think that i had a m/c?? anyone who had a m/c around the 5th week, please tell me your exparience...idk what to think anymore..i think im bout to go CrAzY..PLease please help me....

 

jg - March 15

I have not had a m/c, but home pregnancy tests are 99.9% accurate, so if it was showing as positive, and then negative and now you are bleeding, I would a__sume it is a m/c. Is the pain or bleeding worse than normal??

 

fltjt705 - March 15

Most m/c happen in the first trimester before most women even know their pregnant. Sorry if it is a m/c

 

Crystal B - March 15

hey jg, thanx for responding...well, im not really even bleeding that much anymore...see, i started stuck in traffic, so by the time i got home, it was a lil messy, i put a tampon in, and about 20 mins later i took it out to take a shower and there wasnt barly any blood on it, and now i just have tp wrapped up and all i see is a spot of blood everynow and then..and im not feeling any pain except for some cramps and backache that i been experencing, I thought it was from pregnancy...correct me if im wrong, but wouldnt it be to late for implantion bleeding? af was due march 6. and i heard that ib comes around your expected period, and your body produces hcg after implation....right??

 

Crystal B - March 15

thank you fltjt705...i pray that it was just a false positive...i dont wanna lose my baby

 

redphoenixx10468 - March 15

since you got 2 positives first, it indicates pregnancy, but then 2 negatives, which indicates no pregnancy. what i'm trying to say is you could have been pregnant and, unfortunately, had an EPL, which is an early pregnancy loss. i could be wrong though. but it does happen and i know about that personally. miscarriages and EPLS occur in first trimesters...sometimes before a woman knows she is pregnant. though it can be a little sad, relax. it can and will happen. if you really want to know what happened, explain this to your doctor. only they know what is really happening with the body. i'm sorry if it is an EPL. don't worry. great things come to those who wait. :-D

 

Crystal B - March 15

Thank you redphoenixx....i feel kindof guilty for wanting to try to get another one..but i want a baby so bad...im sorry for your m/c also, how long ago was it?

 

redphoenixx10468 - March 15

sweeetie, you and i are on the same page. i've been desiring a child for the longest of time. i finally decided to try and so far have not succeeded to any avail. last month though, i did, but had an EPL. the way i look at it is everything happens for a reason. who knows why my body rejected the embryo? possible DNA problem? maybe just to teach me how to be more appreciative the next time around? you never know. that's how i think though. i tried again this month and am now just in that waiting period once more. good luck to you.

 

Crystal B - March 16

thank yall all for being so nice to me, could there be another explanation? like. i heard that some woman bleed in early pregnany..maybe its that?.......Yall, i dont know what to do, i feel so awful..i smoke, last monday was my bday i drunk a little, but i didnt even get a buzz...i shouldnt drunk i know, and i woke up this mouring in a bad mood, and today has been a bad day and i been streesed out , i think that bc i was so streesed out that made , like maybe it was dying and then today me being strees out just broke the hair on the camals back..i been being mean to dh and i keep pushing him away..i know that it wasnt even a real baby yet...but, it was mine. my first + hpt, my first baby..and i lost it..how do yall do it for those who did lose a baby? espically alot longer on in pregnancy, when u knew what the s_x was, or heard the heartbeat? im i taking it to hard? idk, i feel awful, for anyone who got threw this PLEASE help me..PLEASE...oh yea, like my question earlier, do yall think that in any way theres another explanation?? thanx for all the help, im sorry that i wrote so much, right now i feel like yall are the only ones i can talk to...

 

Helpme - March 16

hi i have had bleeding all through out my last pregnacy. at times i thought id lost the baby but i wos told it was due to implantation. and if your placenta was implanted low this could lead to bleeding during pregnacy. i usually lost lots of blood not small amounts i know it seems alarming. the best thing to do is go to an early preg clinic. good luckxxxx

 

Crystal B - March 16

thank you, helpme. Should I wait until I quit bleeding to make a doc appointment or should i make one asap??

 

jg - March 16

Crystal If i were you I would go to the doctor straight away. If you are pregnant and bleeding, they may be able to do something to stop it, and if you are not pregnant, then at least you will have peace of mind. Let us know how you go.

 

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