Pregnant Alone Amp Depressed

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iimsooflyx0 - April 26

Hi everyone.. im 21 weeks pregnant and I just turned 18. Im not with the father any more, hes too immature and i cant stand him. And im not even 100% sure hes the father it COULD be someone else... so thats put alot of stress on me. I recently fell head over heels in love with this guy.. and we were casually dating for a few weeks and this past weekend my "best friend" of 6 years got with him behind my back and theve been together since. Its too much for me to take, and Ive become SO depressed. I cry everyday, its so hard to eat and sleep. and sometimes I feel like I dont want this baby anymore, and I feel TERRIBLE for feeling this way... I just need some advice....

 

sa__sifras - April 26

It sounds like you need to talk to someone. If you don't have insurance you can find out what the state offers as far as counseling, I know it may sem cheesy if you have never done it before but it really helps I promise! Just being able to talk to someone for even an hour that is objective takes so much off of your shoulders. This is supposed to be a very good time in your life, and its not healthy to be so depressed while you are pregnant, for you or the baby. This is where you find out who your true friends are, and even family can turn, this is a time to really prioritize the important things and that is your health. If youdo have insurance, maybe talk to your OBGYN and see if they can refer you to someone. I know this is a hard time but try to make the best of it so you can look back on it and not be so negative about the situation like I was about my first. Good luck and keep your head up.

 

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