Should I

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sunshine - September 7

well my boyfriend and i have been dating for going on two years, he's my best friend and i love him, i can tell him absolutely anything, he's like my soul mate. well we've never had s_x with one another and i feel deeply for him so im thinking about going to the next level with him, i wanna have s_x with him but don't know if i should, im 17 and ive never had s_x before, what shoul i do???????

 

Jaedyn - September 7

well sunshine, if you feel like you are truely ready to make the next move with him then i would say follow your heart. BUT before you do i would advise you to get on some kind of birth control, so be it the Depovera shot or the pill, just whatever you do always make sure you are on birth control and he uses a condom. im sure you don't want a baby at such a young age and you also dont want any STD's. he may/may not have any...u never know. always remember that its your life and your virginity is very special so if you truely are ready then go for it. Just please take my advice and double up on protection.

 

Viv - September 7

I take it he also wants to go to the next level. When you start thinking like that its awful easy to get carried away and give in to temptation without proper preparation. Jaedyn is right, double up on protection, and have the details figured out ahead of time. I'm not so keen on Depo after reading some of the posts here on the uncertainties when you go off it. Happy hunting, sunshine!

 

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