Should I Find Out The Sex

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laney - February 1

Hi all I am almost 17 weeks pregnant and my 20 week scan is towards the end of this month. I originally had planned to find out the s_x of my baby, just for practical reasons and I'm so curious to know. However, my boyfriend and his family said that I shouldn't find out and feel quite strongly about this. I don't like to go against their request but I'm so tempted to find out. Does anyone have any views on this? Pro's and con's? Thanks

 

Leahp - February 1

Hi laney! Maybe ask your doc to keep it a secret during the ultrasound, but to slip you the sheet of paper with the s_x, without your bf seeing.Then you can let your boyfriend know that you're going to find out and he doesn't have to know if he doesn't want to! Couples do it a lot keeping the s_x a secret from eachother if the other one doesn't want to know, I guess you may have to hide the baby clothes you buy, though!! Plus since when do his parents have a say in the matter, this is your baby!!! They can b___t out!!!!

 

laney - February 1

Leah Thanks, I think I will do that. I'd like to know just so that I don't have to keep wondering! And you're right, his parents shouldn't have a say in the matter - it's not their baby!

 

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