Should I Have A Baby Now

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d - July 28

Question: Question: ive been married for a year now and my husband and i have been trying to have a baby for a year now we are finally trying to go to doctor to see a better way to get pregnant . bt theres one thing im 20 and my husband is in the military and im really scared of being alone . is being nervouse and quetioning my elf normal im scared please help me out i need an answer befor startng me treatments thanks

 

~ - July 28

Hi d. Well my opinion is to wait for your hubby to commit to supporting and being there for you 100%. I personally wouldnt want to go through my pregnancy on my own. My fiance has been very supportive and dont know what i would do without his support. Good luck in what your decision is.

 

VAL - July 28

honestly, if you have to come on a message board and ask if we think you should have one now or wait, then you probably should not have one right now. Having a baby is not something to take lightly, and if you aren't 100% ready, don't try right now. Wait a couple years, maybe your husband will be there for you more by then, and when you stop questioning yourself whether or not you should have one, then have one...it's ok to be a little scared, but you shouldn't be wondering whether or not you should have one right now.

 

melonbelly - July 29

You're young and still have plenty of time to wait if you don't want to do it alone. I've done it once alone, and once with a hubby going to every Dr's appt with me. For me, it was much easier when I had someone there. You will need the emotional and physical support. I know how it is to want a baby, but take your time, and do it when you know the time is right for you.

 

J - July 29

I think it is too young if you ask me. I wouldn't want a baby at that age. Have some fun yourself before you have to take care of a child. It is a huge responsibility.

 

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