To Have A Shower Or Not

10 Replies
Me - November 6

Hi everyone-I am pregnant with my second and I had a boy the first time and I didn't have a shower but everyone brought stuff to the hospital. I was wondering if this one is a girl-is it ok to have a shower? Or do you just have them with first pregnancies???

 

kr - November 6

You can really do what you want in this case. You may feel the most comfortable to only have a shower if someone offers. How far apart are the babies.

 

Me - November 6

two years apart almost-My SIL offered to throw one but I just didn't know if it would be appropriate.

 

Lisa - November 6

If she offered, I would happily take her up on it. It will be lots of fun and a great get together for you. It's exciting and you are celebrating a new baby. Your baby! Go for it!

 

kr - November 6

I agree! If you still feel funny you can offer to help your SIL out with the details.

 

bran - November 11

I had a shower for my friend two years apart. I dont know if I would have wanted one that close together. Now Im preg and it is almost 9 years later and my mom is having one for me. But I think because its been so long its like a first baby again.

 

Hope - November 11

I am eleven weeks pregnant with my third, My other two are 6 and 4. My SIL is having a shower for me:) I gratefully accepted. Afterall I'm starting all over again

 

ally - November 13

im that brain dead i thought she was asking is it ok to take a shower haha

 

lol ally - November 13

i thought that too when i first seen the t_tle. lol we're nerds. ;-)

 

pbj - November 13

I would say if someone offers then of course. I just maybe wouldn't request one.

 

Me - November 13

thanks for the responses. I think that I am going to wait to accept depending on the s_x. I have a boy ans I still have some stuff from when he was little, but if it is a girl, I will have one.

 

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