Unsure What To Do

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Laurie - October 21

This isn't a question about symptoms. My 7 year old son has wanted a baby sister or brother since he was 3 years old. My fiencie and I are trying for a baby now. We have discused this with my son and he is thrilled. Two years ago I was pregnant and miscarried at three months. My son was very upset it took him months to get over it and still today brings it up now and then. My question is should I tell him right away when I am pregnant (hopefully now) or should I wait until three months (the danger zone) is over? He is really sensitive and I don't want him to be angry at us for keeping it from him?

 

E - October 21

He will get over you not telling him about the pregnancy right away if he knows there will be something so great arriving. It will be harder for him to deal with the flipside although I am not against children learning about death at that age, especially in such a non-violent, natural way. Good luck . I also know the pain of miscarriages and wish you success:)

 

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