When Do You Know It S The Right Time For More Kids

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baby blues - November 2

We have 2 already but I'm feeling the baby bug again. I haven't lost the weight from the last one. I've always wanted a big family either biological or adopted. It would be a strain on us financially but I don't want to have more kids at a late age.

 

sandi - November 2

hi, i have two already and want another. I am a bit overweight and have stopped ovulating so I am doing all I can to get my hormones back on track. i have tried to lose weight too cos like you I dont want to leave it much longer as I am 34 this month. my kids are 9 and 5.

 

Jamie - November 2

I just had my first in August - I'd love to start trying again now, but my doctor told me to wait at least a year - but on my daughter's 1st birthday, I'm gonna start trying again.

 

Laura - November 2

baby blues, I have three. We have decided to have them close together and get it out of the way while we are young. As far as the losing weight thing. I have decided to take care of that after I am done having children. Good luck to you.

 

karine - November 2

i know what you mean! We have 2. And we didnt want anymore. But we had a pregnancy scare in June. But my periods came VERY late..and instead of being reliefed we were disapointed. we knew we wanted another one at that point. And we got pregnant right away. iam 12weeks along (didnt take much time LOL)...we werent highly financialy stable either. but we always make things work out. we are 22&26 and we were always planning on having our kids very young and being able to still have quality time together once the kids are adults. as we would only be in our 40's. Iam even more excited with this pregnancy than the other 2. you just know it when its timw, your heart will tell ya

 

sandi - November 2

Hi all, we didnt want any more either but something just clicked in my head and now I cant go anywhere without seeing babies everywhere. its heartbreaking knowing I have had two already but just cant hit it lucky with a third.

 

baby blues - November 2

thanks for all the advice. is it harder the more children you have? i know i get tired when i'm pregnant and just worry about what affect it would have on my other 2, one is a toddler and the other in 4th grade. how do the parents with more than 2 kids stay on schedule and lead organized lives? and manage to get everything done and still spend time with the kids? my brain goes dead when i'm pregnant too and i get so forgetful.

 

Laura - November 2

Baby Blues, I have 9, 3 and 18 months. The oldest is kind of on his own plays with friends, he is a very big help. He is busy with sports and such. The two little ones play great together. It is hard when they are new and close together but as they are getting older it seems to be easier.

 

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