Who S The Father

25 Replies
Tina - February 11

Im in deep. First day of last period was Jan 14. I have a 27 day cylce-which mean ovulation took place around the 27th. I had s_x with man #1 on Jan18&25 withdrawl method. Then had s_x with man #2 on Jan27w/condom and then again on Feb 2nd withdrawl method. On feb 2nd- we had s_x 3 times in one night... he did not "clean up" or pee inbetween. Now I'm pregnant and don't know who the possible dad could be. Any ideas??? Man#1 pulled out in plenty of time... but worried about prec_m? Please help me. I'm devistated. I was supposed to start the pill this month.

 

kate - February 11

Condoms are very effective and I would skip starting the pill if you are not in a monogomous relationship as the pill does not protect from deadly viruses.When and if you period is late take a home pregnancy test.If positive make your decisions then..if negative please always use condoms.

 

tiffani - February 11

Wow ~ It's just not possible to determine who the father is without a DNA test. It could very easily be either of them. I think the right thing to do would be to tell both of the men the truth and wait an see what the test results say. We all make mistakes, it's what we learn from them that makes us who we are.

 

Maleficent - February 11

it could be either one. the only way to tell is with a dna test either after the baby is born or by amniocentisis. their are risks involved with an amnio, and alot of insurance won't pay for an elective one. please, even if you are pregnant, use condoms every time. you can protect yourself, and possibly your baby from serious and life threatening diseases.

 

Hubby - February 13

hey hey, man#1 is father of the baby cos his sperms can survive 3-5 days, don forget that he shoot on 25th n your ovulated on 27th. So only his sperms can be fertilized in your uterus!!

 

Berly - February 13

Hun I say that either has just as much chance so my advice fess up let both know the deal and don't be ashamed about it if you are you are just opening up yourself for a world of hurt which right now you don't need. The less stress the best. I know that seems hard right now but find someone who you can trust and will support you. Worry about the guys later when you can have a DNA test. Best Wishes to ya!

 

dl - February 16

sounds like you should go on a talk show

 

Shawn - February 16

If you find out let me know cause I'm in your same shoes, I had s_x with a guy on Jan 5th with no withdrawel then man #2 on Jan 14 with a condom but it got stuck in me and my period is 28 days , but I'm six week preg and the doctor said he thinks it guy #2 and that's not what I wanted to hear so I think I'll have a abortion

 

WRONG ANSWER - February 16

I think that in ur case abortion is NOT the answer, it should be adoption. Give it a chance or keep it and teach it to keep its legs closed!!!!! You girls that think it is a way out it is NOT!!! Its MURDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

KIM - February 16

I ALSO WOULD NOT HAVE A ABORTION THEY CAN HAVE LIFE ALTERING CHANGES ON YOU. ADOPTION IS STILL AN OPTION IN FACT I HAVE NOT MADE UP MY MIND IF I AM KEEPING THIS BABY OR NOT. I WISH I WOULD HAVE WAITED UNTIL I WAS MARRIED BUT PLEASE DON'T DO ABORTION IT IS PAINFUL AND VERY UPSETIING I THOUGH ABOUT IT CONSIDERING I AM GOING TO BE 25 WITH TWO KIDS WITH DIFFERENT DADS I BEEN WITH TOO PEOPLE IN MY LIFE BUT I COULD NOT GO THROUGH WITH IT TOO MANY PEOPLE WANT BABY AND CAN'T HAVE THEM HELL I GET PREGGO ON CONDOMS LIFE AINT FAIR THE GOOD LORD DOES NOT GIVE YOU MORE THEN YOU CAN HANDLE

 

mikie - February 17

mayeb yuo should have just chosen one partner? its gonna be hard. at 10 weeks pregnancy you can have a dna test, but this ay mean telling the guys your pregnant and wanna know who the father is. i hope to god the fatehr doesnt run a mile! i would

 

TO TINA - February 17

YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO GET A DNA TEST DONE. EVERYONE MAKE MISTAKES. PLEASE LOOK IN ALL YOUR OPTIONS(ABORTION OR ADOPTION) THIS DECISION IS ALL UP TO YOU. ALL WAYS USE CONDOMS!!! GOOD LUCK

 

Tina - February 22

I think all you people making YOUR thoughts known of what YOU feel is the right decision to me- Should keep your mouth shut. I wasn't looking for advice. I was in love with the first man, and the second I have known for a very very long time. Not that it's any of YOUR business. Don't be so quick to judge. I never said I was going to have an abortion, and if I do decide to- that is my decision and no one elses'. I know about STDs and AIDS. I wasn't born yesturday. You have no idea of my life or my situation. Some of you owe me an apology. The rest of you can go to hell.

 

Tina - February 22

Thank you for all who had support and guidence without putting in your own personal opinion of me. I appreciate it and found it comforting. Thank you.

 

* - February 22

Actually Tina, you need to give your baby an apology for putting it in the middle of this mess.

 

CC - February 27

Tina if you don't like what these people are saying or it sounds rude click on poor taste and It will report them and they will be removed, I had it happen to me cause you don't hafta listen to rude people

 

CC - February 27

Oh tina also let me know if you figure it out who the father is, Because the same thing happen to me right at this very moment, keep your head up!!!!!

 

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