My Pregnant Girlfriend Left Me Please Need Help

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demo13 - March 23

Ok, so I'll try to make this short as i can without missing too many details. Please bear with me cos I really need some advice and reasurring. My ex and i were introduced by multual friends. We hit it off immediately. Everything was perfect,we were making plans for us and joking about future and being old,but as time was passing by we start having small arguments over her sister she coudnt bear the fact that she dosnt have boyfrend and all that,ading to that i start beining insecure and bit jelous,in midlle of january wee found out that she is pregnant she was two week's gone into it,and the bum we had a big fight she needed space and time and i give her no matter that i was lossing my self like i am doing it now ,the fight was over something what i had nothing to do but over my past mistakes she just didnt bellive so i admit it,i admit something what i had nothing to do for the sake of the baby and because i love her so much,we got back but she wasnt the same,her hormons where out the space and i just couldnt adjust to that new situation,i was asking for love she couldnt give to me,i try making lil presents and suprisses but every time i was let down from her side,nothing what i was doing was not gud,so i start qeustion her love twords me and she turn around tell me that she doesnt know how she feels that she love me as a person but she is not sure about other kind of love that she needs time to realise how she feels twords me and that the day when our big fight happend her feeling fall down for me and that it will take time to recover and to forgive,day by day she start txt me less and less that's understanble over condiotion she was feeling sick and all that i try to be there when she needed me but we fall down 4 days ago,she said that i was to needy and that i am pushing things and she clearly told me that she needs time to realise how she feels twords me and that at this moment i am to much for her.......... she is now 9,half weeks pregnant i dont know what to do ,i feel like everything is gone,she doesnt wanna talk to me at all ,she is very stubborn so is not helping at all that,we where together around 7 months,she said that we are over but she will let me know about apoiments and all that,is there any chance when the baby comes along that i cann win her back or should i just focus on our kid now?

 

JamesM75 - March 26

I can only imagine how heartbroken you are. You want to be there for your baby. My advice is detach and start focusing on the kid or break contact with her completely if your heart allows you too. You are likely going to have to fight to make yourself the legitimate parent of this child. You should talk to a family law attorney and figure out what your options are. I see several red flags here. I recommend you google BPD/NPD and see if your girlfriend fits.

 

E457 - August 23

old thread

 

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