My Pregnant Girlfriend Seems To Hate Me

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didntseethis - June 7

ok mate ill have a look on the email now .. i was out last night bumped itnto her cousin she told me my exs mum had txt her asked if she had seen or heared from me i cant work out why she has txt her ..

 

didntseethis - June 12

whatsgoinon .. alright mate illgive you a txt when get my phone bac i went out friday and smashed it hows everything going ?

 

whatsgoinon - June 13

Hello mate, Mentally struggling to be fair, "But" the 3 of us went out for something to eat last night, then they came "home" with me for a bit, I was holding her belly for a while seeing if we could feel baby kicking, playing with my little girl, then out of the blue when she got changed she asked me to feel the weight of her b___bs now where they are beginning to become so heavy with no top on at all!! We are all going out for the day on Sun also, but she is still maintaining that we will never be together again as a family and all she needs in her life is her children and not me!! As Bob Marley once said " Time will tell".......... Hope ur cool mate, yeah gimme a text and well chat. I guess no progression with u buddy?

 

didntseethis - June 13

Whatsgoinon .. i think your guna be ok mate dont force the issue of relationship on her just yet just be a family but with out that for time being and it will come back to her when she settles down all the signs are there for you just dont force it .. no its got worse iv took to the drink heavy last night i was told off an old school friend who is married to my exs dad best mate said they spoke to him the other day and said they were friends of mine the reason why she hasnt spoke to me or wants anything to do with me is wait for it.... i tried to kill her and the baby she has told ppl i asked or told her to get off the meds that the docs had put her on for thyroid and knowing if she came off them damage could happen to the baby and her life threaterning things i really dont no where she is getting all this from or why she is even saying it but its getting to me now .

 

Jamiek9034 - June 14

Hi Guy's I wrote on this site on page 33 if ye al wonna go back on the comment... Am really things will get better after the baby is born ye will have to talk at some stage about the child and tell her you wonna be around the child (after Birth) and the 2 of ye can be there but if ye aint in a relationship ye can always work it out take your time seen your child and leave her be around aswell and let her know that this is what it would like been a family and the 3 of ye can do things and ye can build on that.. me and the mother of my child broke up but sins baby was bron we been gettn on great and been around the child alot my child is 15 moths old now and we still aint in a relationship but we have met once or twice and going in the right direction I don't know what is gonna come between us but I am preparing myself for the bad news and and good news.. I hope this message gets to ye all and a positive mind.. really just give her space till baby is born and hang around she will get the feeling.. :D

 

Jamiek9034 - June 14

everything will be ok man really, ye will get close again.. every girl is different with pregnancy mine was great startn a family came 3 moths into it everything went down hill!! but my daughter is 15 months ol;d now and we are getting on great not bk in a relationship yet but where building on it..

 

didntseethis - June 14

whatsgoinon i drink pal to get it out my head just for five mins from min i wake up to min i nod off its in my head constant its not a nice thing to have but i do .. jamie9034 dont no what you went through did your ex have no contact with you all the way through pregnancey she hate you to the point of you having knothing to your baby because i cant ever seeing me have anything to do with my daughter not because i dont want to only because she hates me that much and she has moved on and i cant because my feelongs are still not gone

 

whatsgoinon - June 17

Update didntseethis, We all went out for the day yesterday to a theme park, I had a great time on all the rides with my little un, she absolutely loved it, they both stayed over on Sat night because we had an early start, nothing like that at all! They stayed in the main bedroom and I was seperate, but none the less it felt lovely having them under the same roof as me ( All 3 of em )had plenty of hugs going around the park, even on the way home she was saying wouldn't it be nice to go "home" get little un sleep and have some dinner etc 20 week scan this AM, we are having another little girl!!! But I have had phone calls this afternoon with her crying saying they miss me but cannot ever come back, I am actually begining to feel sorry for her because I can genuinely see how messed up she is, but she does admit she is but says it's all my fault that she is, ( The old blame the fella bit ) says she doesn't want to do it on her own, I have have said that she doesn't have to and my heart and home are open to all 3 of them!! I stand by my decisions in life and it was my decision to marry her and it was our decision to try for another baby and I will do all I can for them all always! I don't think I could wait till my next one was 15 months old man, fair play to u tho!!

 

didntseethis - June 17

whatsgoinon .. thats good news congrats on a daughter mate i still think from what your sayin it will all come good for you iv hit the drink abit hard after sunday what i was told she had told friends of mine that i wont make a good dad because i walked out on her go figure that out it was her that pushed me away it was her with the nasty txt it was her not wanting any contact and it was her after five weeks in a new relationship but somehow its me thats wrong she wanted to get pregnant she wanted to get married un frecking real ..jamie9034 did ur relationship end the same way as ours when ur ex was pregnant and was it her that got in touch with you ? as you can tell my other has cut all contact and even changed numbers for a fact she told friends she wont never speak to me and thats me done nothing to deserve that .

 

didntseethis - June 17

whatsgoinon .. thats good news congrats on a daughter mate i still think from what your sayin it will all come good for you iv hit the drink abit hard after sunday what i was told she had told friends of mine that i wont make a good dad because i walked out on her go figure that out it was her that pushed me away it was her with the nasty txt it was her not wanting any contact and it was her after five weeks in a new relationship but somehow its me thats wrong she wanted to get pregnant she wanted to get married un frecking real ..jamie9034 did ur relationship end the same way as ours when ur ex was pregnant and was it her that got in touch with you ? as you can tell my other has cut all contact and even changed numbers for a fact she told friends she wont never speak to me and thats me done nothing to deserve that .

 

whatsgoinon - June 18

Yeah we have communication mate, I was suppoosed to be seeing her 2nite to go baby shopping but I'm still stuck at work, when I get in I have to do the hoovering, do the washing up, get some washing on, think about what I can have for dinner etc, I miss my lady, All Iv'e ever asked from her is that she looks after the children, runs the home and I'll take care of the rest, a bit old fashioned I know but I want her to be the mummy to my kids and do not want them being looked after by someone else, most women would jump at the chance I'm sure....... That you will defo need to do my man, anyway, what happened to texting me? You should do and I'll give u a bell mate?!

 

didntseethis - June 18

whatsgoinon ... am getting p__sed about by o2 at the min i should get my phone back weds mate as soon as i get it back ill give you a txt see how things are ..god so do i bud i wish mines was speaking to me and it was like it before she was pregnant id be happy with that at the min not this hatred that i dont understand no i hear you on that i dont want mine being looked after by anyone else thats whats doing me in at the min the thought that someone is doing what i should be ..thats all i wanted to do make sure the girlfriend was sorted with what she needed but all i got was pushed away its heartbreaking ment tobe best time of life its a fudging nightmare for me and my family while she seems to be happy no worrys in the world am hoping she snaps out of it and she comes back when baby is born but two months of not even a txt from her just vile hate i cant see it this was the girl that wanted the family with me now nothing ..

 

whatsgoinon - June 19

Mate, it honestly doesn't make any sense whatsoever, extremely bizarre!! Iv'e never really heard of it to that extent ( Until I came on here that is ) Iv'e had the "this is horrible, I'm finding it so hard" text this morning, and "Why am I getting weaker and not stronger. this is getting harder with time not easier" so I really can't answer what go's on in their heads mate, I know that all she has ever wanted is a family with me, we're married, got a lovely 3 bed detached place, I have a good job, gonna have 2 beautiful daughters, I just seriously hope that she snaps out of it, she has said this AM that she misses me etc so I really really hope she comes round sooner rather than later ( If at all ) It's going on to long now, Iv'e forgotten how to be happy!! Yes mate, gimme a text, we will chat!

 

didntseethis - June 19

whatsgoinon .. i went seen a councilor today see if i could get answers and some the things she said were eye operners in the 30oddyrs or her doing that for work and she said she has heard or it on few occasions to this level pregnant women are not in charge of there thoughts its like another person has taken over the forget all the good u have done and are doing all they see is the badyou have done and its highlighted bigger than what it really is if she hates you still after 2months it means she still has feeling maybe even still in love but something in her head has put a signal blocker to that part of brain that tells them hes my babys daddy and best thing ever to happen she has subbed me for another bloke and that is because of two things i got her like this the mental probs she is having the body change the sickness the sleepless night the thoughts that she dont love you and the second thing is she is in denial that its happening and am the last person she wants to see or talk to because that would bring reality back .. am same as you mate two months of not being around her not knowing what is going on is taken its toll on me the happiest days is a nightmare for us ppl ..

 

didntseethis - June 24

Whatsgoinon... hows things going with you mate ? should get my phone back tomor or weds so ill give you a txt then.. i seen my exs dad friday night and he blanked me when i went to speak just walked straight pa__sed and i thought the ex needed to grow up .

 

whatsgoinon - June 24

Now what reason would he have to blank you unless she has filled their heads up with c___p! That's what you have to think to urself buddy! Eeeerm, a bit strange this end to be honest buddy, she came round on Sat and completely cleaned the house top to bottom, bleached all the woodwork etc, saying she wanted to come back early this week, then yesterday it's well maybe I will within the next couple of weeks or so, I kinda got a bit p__sed off and just said "what makes you think you can call all the shots, you best hurry up and decide other it may not be your decision any longer" And I may have added " I don't need to be with you to be a good daddy" All I want is the family unit but a fella can only be pushed so far man! Kinda regret saying it today but we have spoken already and she seems ok "ish"..... Yes bud, gimme a text and well chat!!

 

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