Pregnany Wife Is Done

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LNLYDADDY - January 6

Well ladies and gentlemen, here is the situation. I've been married for just over two years and I have two daughters from a previous marriage. My current wife is pregnant, 24 weeks today. She left me on December 10, 2012 and we haven't spoken since. I visited my daughters for Christmas and returned home to find that my wife and her family took all of her stuff out of the house. Wedding pictures, furniture and gifts given to us were gone. Nobody from her family is talking to me and neither is she. I heard through the grapevine that she is "done" and once she is "done", that's it. We are going to have a boy together and I was so excited to have a baby together. This is the second time she has left me during this pregnancy. There has been no violence or abuse, just some disagreements and a lot of hormones. I was patient at first, but since she has left me a second time and keeps running back to her parents, I've decided to file for legal separation and move closer to my daughters. My wife has left me and I have nobody here and I want to be around those who love me most. I am a Christian and my wife and family say they are but I don't feel they are acting very Christian like. I don't want a divorce. I want to spend the rest of my life with my wife, but I can't continue to keep being left behind. I'm here for my wife and stayed here for her and she has left me alone. My two daughters miss me dearly and I miss them as well. My friends and family have told me that my wife and I aren't compatible and that I should consider divorce. God doesn't want us to divorce. She is due in April 2013 and I'm looking for another job in a different state. The clock is ticking. If a job comes along, then I'm going to take it. If my wife wants to stay married, she will have to come with me. I can't have her family continuing to mess with our marriage. It is one thing to give marital advice, but enabling someone to leave their husband is betrayal. I may not be acting in the most Christan way, but like I mentioned, I'm going to file for legal separation. If she wants me back, she will know where to find me. I just hope that it's not too late. Any advice on the situation?

 

lostnhurt - March 13

Hi.. im going thru something very simliar.. she was my gf of 1yr not my wife.. she is christan i am not.. 6 weeks into her pregnancy we had an argument, and she left me wont even talk to me or take my calls.. she told me she wants to have the child alone wo me .. its devasting i want nothing more then a happy family.. she said she is done.. she is 14 weeks pregnant now.. also back at her parents house, and i feel her christan family is saying to stay away from me and also enabling her actions.. there was never any abuse, cheating or didnt even raise my voice at her.. i dont know if its the hormones or her christan family.. i have no idea what to do.. im lost.. any new developments in your rel??

 

E457 - August 23

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talizzman - July 15

My 33 pregnant wife left me too and it has been 5 weeks of separation now and she says she is not coming back and will file a divorce as soon as she can. Did you get back together with you wife? what was the outcome of your story?

 

talizzman - July 15

My 33 pregnant wife left me too and it has been 5 weeks of separation now and she says she is not coming back and will file a divorce as soon as she can. Did you get back together with you wife? what was the outcome of your story?

 

LNLYDADDY - July 15

The outcome was divorce that came with financial destruction and basically losing everything.  She was out to destroy me.  If there is anyway to go through the divorce without using attorneys, do it. My ex racked up a $40k attorney bill, I got stuck with $15k of her attorney fees, plus $20k of mine, $23k in spousal support for a year (on a two year marriage).  She tried to get a restraining order and take my son away from me. It has been two years now, I have my son (26 months old) for 45% timeshare and he loves me to death. I lost a lot financially, but everytime my son calls me "Daddy" and smiles, it was worth it.  I have actually remarried and found someone who truly appreciates me and loves me.  I hope that you don't have to go through the things I had to, but know that in the end, you will be fine. Hang in there! Keep in touch. I'd be happy to share my advice.

 

talizzman - July 15

Oh man I am really sorry to learn that, I'm scared of what is going to happen to us but I am staying possitive. Thanks for sharing your story and definitely we will be in touch and share the outcome of mine. I am glad you are better now, in my case as of right now I am heartbroken and looking for ways to fix my marriage. Blessings!

 

LNLYDADDY - July 15

Try looking for a Divorice Care group in your area.  It will help you stay positive and can offer suggestions on how to cope with everything.

 

LNLYDADDY - July 15

Divorce Care, you can Google it. 

 

talizzman - July 15

thanks, I found one 16 miles from where I live. I appreciate it!!

 

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