Bribe Hubby With Sex

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Heather F - July 7

I know this is a bit off subject but you ladies are the only ones I can share with.....My husband has been more then lacking in s_x since I have had our dd, I am still not healed from my episiotomy and it hurts (sorry for the tmi) so we do it very non frequently. Well tomorrow we are moving and I still have alot to do to get ready for the movers...my baby is teething and its been hard to pack with her crying most of the day. My husband was like "i'm tired I'm going to bed" and I knew I had hours of work left, his next remark was "too bad your still not up to par, so we can do it one last time in this apartment" my response was "well we could try if I didnt have two hours of work left, maybe if you helped I could get done sooner and have energy for s_x" - now he's working like a buzy bee to get everything done!!!!! (he just left to take out the trash) - if I knew that would work I would have done it much sooner!! Needless to say I'll have to use this trick more often to get him to do what I want!!!

 

Narcissus - July 8

Ooooh, I like this subject!! I am guilty of dangling s_x in front of my dh as well as a former fiance. My ex-fiance even wanted something from me that I hated to do and found painful so I always charged him btw $50 & $100 for it. I know some women will come down on me for that but I don't care. I did not want to do that particular thing and the only motivation I had was some money to spend on a ma__sage or a night out with the girls. Besides, it was my opinion that he should pay for me to do what I did and he did not seem to mind. So there -- I was a hooker.... I said it so you don't have to.... Heather F - YOU GO GIRL!! Using s_x to get what we want is a womanly art and it's also very convenient.

 

AprilMum - July 8

Oh, this is great. I don't care what anyone says, I just don't see anything wrong with it. I think if you flat out told them, "I'm only having s_x with you, to get you to do various tasks I don't want to do" - they wouldn't care!! ......if he does, you've got yourself a lady. I mean, what the hell, everybody gets what they want. Oh, and Narcissus, there was a Dr. Phil episode awhile back where a woman had her husband give her money for s_xual things, and of course Phil thought it was wrong - but again, both parties seemed pretty okay with it, and apparently just needed it to be on national television. (?!)

 

Narcissus - July 8

April, that was me on Dr Phil :) J/K!!!

 

Selena - July 8

DH and I play this "game" all the time. We barter for s_xual favors just to spice things up. Of course I would give it up for him anyway but this makes it interesting and it does help encourage getting some of the household chores done ina timely fashion! I thought all women used this technique??!! If ya don't then you should cause you're missing out. Men are easy to please, if he's not h__y then make him a sandwich!

 

HannahBaby - July 8

I can see bribing your husband with s_x, but chargine him money?? Thats a little out of hand to me. I wouldent call you a hooker Narc, you were engaged, I just think thats a little out of hand. Your lucky there are men out there who would go get it somewhere else if they knew they would be charged at home....Anyway it doesnt matter. Im 26 weeks pregnant, have no s_x drive what so ever, but i still give him what he wants (to an extent)

 

ash2 - July 8

lucky you! i havent had s_x in about 4 months because my hubby is scared of how it would feel own there! we didnt have it 2 months before baby, and now it has been 2 months after. i asked him this morning, and he said it would be SOON. dont get me wrong, we are still doing foreplay, but it is not the same. when we had s_x the first time after my first son, he said he was "grossed out" because of how it felt , so he wants to wait longer this time.

 

HannahBaby - July 8

not really...bribing and charging money for s_x are totally different things. An exchage of money for s_xual favors (not getting hubby to take out trash) const_tutes prost_tution.

 

Narcissus - July 8

For some people, that's called "marriage".

 

AprilMum - July 8

Ugh. Okay, she's a reformed hussy. Let's let it go, as this was intended to be a lighthearted thread (I think?)

 

AprilMum - July 8

You just shouldn't over a___l-yze things. (couldn't help it)

 

nic nac - July 8

I think Narc did what she did because that was the nature of that relationship. She said she wouldn't charge her dh money, he is worth more than that. She is in a better relationship now.

 

HannahBaby - July 8

Im not attacking Narc or anything. Everyone uses s_x to get what they want. (even if its with your hubby) My hubby isnt as lucky :O) I dont need or want anything that bad lol. Im 26 weeks pregnant and have no desire for s_x...unless theres a mercedes up for grabs...lol

 

nic nac - July 8

LOL

 

Mary - July 8

Yeah right. I tried that with my DH once. I told him if he would start packing (we're moving) I would give him s_x because my libido has been low. He said, "Well I don't need it that bad." He does the whole reverse psychology thing. Not very fair to me.

 

lindsay - July 8

RIGHT ON! too bad under normal circ_mstances(i'm 3 1/2 weeks post-partum and feel disgusting and have no drive) i am a much more s_xual person than my husband if you can believe that! he'd be better off bribing me for s_x, LOL!

 

Narcissus - July 9

Interstingly (to me), I have done this certain act with my dh several times and am not bothered by it the way I was 10 years ago. It was a first time for me back in the days and the thought of doing it frightened me. The relationship I was in way back when was really really f*cked up so accepting payment to please his unusual s_xual appet_te was not the most twisted thing about the relationship.

 

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