Date W My Husband

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Narcissus - July 10

I had the most wonderful weekend with my dh. We have been stressed out for a long time due to my health, finances, his job, and just being plain old parents. We decided to order Thai on Saturday night, we turned off the phone, we layed in bed to talk, laugh, massage, watch a movie, and be romatic. I even picked up a dirty magazine at Barnes & Noble earlier that afternoon just for kicks. It was nothing raunchy but we had fun laughing at it and I think he was generally happy that I initiated the date. I have been turned off and tuned out of my marriage since we had Aja. I pretty much lost interest in s_x all together. Anyhow, thanks for listening!! I hope that my story will inspire someone to rekindle some romance with their sig. other. It was refreshing for a change.

 

kristie h - July 10

Hi narc, Thats great that you took time out. Me and my hubby get my son minded once a month and we look forward to it all the time. Even if its a night in with out the child its great and it keeps your marriage healthy. Good on you!!

 

nic nac - July 10

ohh, you maka me horney, ha ha. that is a good idea. i need to do that. What did you do with Aja? Was he sleep or out of the house. My dd is only 6 months so I want to know what should I do with her, if anything. Thanks.

 

Narcissus - July 10

Aja goes to bed at 7:30 or 8:00. We had dinner with him and part of our date was playing with him after dinner. We do that every night anyhow but Saturday was a particularly good day for us. We even took him to the park. What time does your dd go to sleep?

 

nic nac - July 10

she goes to sleep at 8.

 

Narcissus - July 10

Well then! Your date will start at 8pm:) I was in no mood for anything when my son was that young so it may take a while for you to want to stay up past 8:05, for a date.

 

nic nac - July 10

i don't have much of a drive right now anyway. but sometimes i feel i should do what i have to do to get myself in the mood and to put forth more effort. actually both of our moods are consistent which is good. I am trying to be a MILF but i am going pretty slowly, ha ha. initiating dates would help boost my self esteem KWIM?

 

kristie h - July 10

How old are both of your little ones? Me and hubby use to do that all the time and now my son 1.5 and eating three meals we never have dinner in peace so make the most of it.

 

TinaMarie - July 10

That is aweseome! Good for you! I do stuff like that too. Sometimes I feel bad because there are days he comes home from work and I look like hell! And I have always been one of those obnoxious people who get ready and do make up to go grocery shopping! We are super lucky because the baby goes to bed at 6;30 so we still have lots of time together. The other day I called him and told him we had to eat late because I forgot to pull meat out of the freezer so if he wanted to work later go ahead. He came home and I was dressed up, had candles lit and ate a romantic dinner, then took him upstairs to coninue the evening...lol. I love surprising him with things to let me know how much I adore him.

 

nic nac - July 10

she is 6 months.

 

YC - July 10

Yes, Narcissus, you inspired me. My dd is 6 months old ans since she has been norn I have had NO DESIRE to do the deed LOL!!! We have had s_x 2x and one doesn't even really count LOL!!! And then my db had extensice knee surgery so he has been out of commission. Thank goodness LOL!!! Now that he is healed I guess it's time LOL!!! By the way I have read vaious posts that you have written about your hubby. Sounds like the two of you have a great realationship. It sounds very real...not like you live in fantasyland all the time. I appreciate hearing the reality of marriage and how much work it actually it. We are getting married next May. I can't wait!

 

YC - July 10

Oh and the dirty magazine....nice touch LOL!!! I have never bought one before LOL!

 

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