From B Ashworth

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BAshworth - December 22

Hi I just chose to write this because I went threw all the other posts I've wrote using tons of different names (ie: brittany, bja, ajb, selene's mom, etc) And just realized how screwed up I sound thats also the reason I constantly use different names cause although I don't know any of you it still seems like I'm embarassed being the way I am. Thats why i finally registered it's because this is who I' am screwed up or not. I'm just having a hard time being a mom adjusting to lack of money, not being the most important person to myself anymore, it's hard. Well I'm done crying I just wanted to share.

 

Erica - December 22

Hey I know just how you feel, definately the hardest adjustment of my life, and what a wake up call. How old are you? How old is your baby? Boy/girl?

 

BAshworth - December 22

I'm 20 and have a 3 month old little girl. How about you?

 

Narcissus - December 22

B - I'm very screwed up but I still like to post with my username. Most of the chicks here are cool and will poor taste anyone making rude remarks to those who are spilling their guts with honesty, with hopes for some help or the chance to vent. Take it easy on yourself.

 

Erica - December 22

Im 19 with a 3 month old little boy. Sounds like we have a bit in common.

 

BAshworth - December 22

Yea sure sounds like it. I don't care how screwed up i am i wouldn't change my daughter being here for the world. I love her so much. She just has a psycho mommy.

 

Erica - December 22

I definately feel the same way, biggest change of my life, but also the best. Its def hard going to school (im in college) and taking care of a baby. Very stressful as you would know, are you still with ur lil girls dad? and dont worry im psycho at times also lol

 

Jadyns Mommy - December 22

Hi BAshworth. Dont ever worry about sounding screwed up. I cant speak for everyone else but I know the reason I come here (not only for the great conversations) but also because I am completely clueless and lost at times and need advise/input from anyone else going through it. Like they say, babies dont come with instructions and it can be so confusing when you read all the books as to what is right, what isnt so the way I look at it is there is no stupid question and even when I have felt like a complete idiot asking something that I feel I should already know or be prepared for, there is always someone on this forum that can help or at least share my confusion and has been there as well :-)

 

BAshworth - December 22

Yea me and her dad was married 7 months when i got pregnant. So this may it'll be 2 years together. what about you?

 

Erica - December 22

Ive been with him for two years now also, engaged and we are livin together he is also in college. Hes a year older though.. Hes such a big help though. I was still in hs for most of the pregnancy (highschool) so that was hard, but it all worked out in the end.. How about you?

 

BAshworth - December 22

Well i was already graduated from HS when i got pregnant thankfully cause that would be to hard i think. sorry you had to. But i never went to college i was working in a resturant for my entire pregnancy. Which was nice having free food all the time. So does your liitle boy "talk" all the time? My daughter is such a motor mouth she talks to anyone and everything. she especially love talking to the fish on her mobile. she's a cutie

 

monica - December 22

B- sorry that I didnt think your panty post was legit....I didnt mean to insult anyone.

 

Erica - December 22

Oh yeah motormouth city lol, he talks to the tv, his play gym, strangers.. he just recently started laughing... talk about heartmelting. When was your daughers exact birthdate? Is she rolling over yet? it did suck being preg in high school except the fact that no one knew til after i graduated:D i didnt put on like any weight for a while, so didint have the ha__sle of everyone being immature.. Was ur pregnancy an accident?

 

BAshworth - December 22

MONICA~ hey don't even worry about it its fine i understand there are lots of weirdos on the internet. i'm a liitle crazy but not a weirdo :)

 

Shannon - December 22

everyone is screwed up one way or another, even the most perfect seeming person has some complex or some sort of issues. my dad died when i was 9 and i grew up in a stepfamily of 10!! imagine that! lol i'm 22 with a 8 week old girl, married for only 4 months now. i knew a little about babies, since my youngest sis is now 8, but that certainly didn't prepare me to be a mother myself! we're all learning here :-)

 

Erica - December 22

oh yeah forgot to ask in ur last post if you had a piczo site for ur lil one? ohhyou were the one who did the panty post hehe i thought that was cute,

 

newmom - December 22

Hey BAshworth,,how u doing?? you doin't have to feel about urself coz everyone goes through some difficulties and pain in their life..i'm 20 too and yes i do have 3 month old boy..God we are so common..

 

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