How Often For Sex

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Erin1979 - February 9

Ok, I know this may be wildly inappropriate, but my DH and I both are wondering how often does everyone find time to actually have s_x. I always find by the time DD(almost 18 months) goes to sleep, I make lunches for the next day, get cleaned up for bed, I don't feel like it. Anyone else in the same boat? We are "ttc" in that if it happens, it happens.....not really a mad dash for the bed though. Thanks Ladies.

 

LisaB - February 9

With my dh and I working the hours we do we really only have Saturday or unday to do the deed if ds is sick or something comes up and we miss our oppurtunity we have o wiat until the next week so sadly now on average 1-3 times a month. I hate ie but not much else we can do about it.

 

LisaB - February 9

yikes sorry for the typos

 

kellens mom - February 9

Dh and I are on about the same schedule as LisaB.

 

LisaB - February 9

sad isn't it????

 

SonyaM - February 9

We aim for 1 x weekly but realistically it's only about 2 or 3 x monthly. I just don't have the desire or energy for more than that. I try to "please" him in other ways, wink wink at least once a week.

 

LisaB - February 9

Oh your nice Sonya

 

lin7604 - February 9

well my hubby is a truck driver so it doesn't happen too much as it was. now especially since we has our ds, i am very tired after he goes to bed and i usually hit the sack as well. in the begining he would bug me and i would say well them get to the room quick before i get too tired and he wakes up. I didn't like the idea of even losing 30 min of sleep at night since our ds isn't a good sleeper!

 

ssmith - February 9

hahaha LisaB....Sonya is nicer than me too! DH can take care of himself!!!!!!

 

kellens mom - February 9

There is just something about getting up in the night to take care of a baby that is exhausting. I also think nursing has made me lose a bit of the desire. Combine that with a screwing ovulation schedule when we were ttc which resulted in way to much s_x and you have recipe for a boring s_x life. At least for a while.

 

kellens mom - February 9

I meant to say "screwy" ovulation schedule. That was purely accidental!

 

ashtynsmom - February 9

2-3 times per week. We just MAKE time for it... other wise, we have no physical contact! :)

 

CyndiG - February 9

Sonya, I'd rather just do the deed, rather than "please him other ways". I hate that! If there's going to be any s_xual contact, then I'm getting something out of it! ;O} With that said, 2-3 times a month.

 

USMC_wife - February 9

several times per week. Dh is always after me, and thank goodness dd sleeps through the night. We have a very "healthy" s_x life.

 

Danielle19 - February 9

S_x? whats that like again?? Just kidding not to often here maybe 3-4 a month

 

sahmof3 - February 9

2-3x/month. He's at work all day and I'm with the kids, then we switch and I go to work and get home late = yeah, right!!!

 

jessb - February 9

Thank god I am not alone. For a while there we were only having s_x about 2 times a month. IN the last 10 weeks though, I have lost 23 pounds,so I feel s_xier and am in the mood more often. And DH seems to be more attracted to me. This month is has probably already been about 4 times!!!!!! (wow)

 

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