I M Going Home

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mosley12 - February 28

as most of you know, dh and i have been having problems and i left about 2 1/2 weeks ago so that we could have some time apart. the plan was to be apart for atleast a month or so, but i couldnt do it. he's been asking me to come home, and ive tried to hold out, kinda like to just show him well we cant do this everytime things get this bad and than just act like it never happened, but i cant stay anymore. i just miss him to much. he's expecting me on friday, btu ds and i are going to get up early tommorrow and surprise him when he gets home. things are better between us, but they arent great. we realized we both have alot we need to work on, and we plan on seeing a marraige counselor once a month. i also know i need to stop keeping things to myself until i get so frustrated i just explode! lol..but thank you to everyone who encouraged me that things were gonna work out. i know its going to be hard, but i love him. most the time im a pain in his butt and he's a pain in mine, but i wouldnt have it any other way!

 

Heather F - February 28

congratulations!

 

snugglybugglys - February 28

I don't know the problems you are having, but The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr Laura Schlessinger is a GREAT book! It helped me to see the difference in men and women, and my marraige has been great since I read it. We are starting to read The Proper Care and Feeding of Marraige also. Hwlps you realize why they are a pain in the b___t lol!

 

snugglybugglys - February 28

helps I mean, sorry I'm holding my baby.

 

jas - February 28

that's awesome!!! Best of luck!!!!!!

 

Mellissa - February 28

yay! i'm so happy for you! i really hope things work out for ya'll!! that fact that you both knew you needed a break shows maturity on both your parts, i think. i'm sure he's going to be so happy to see you!!!

 

KLC - February 28

That is wonderful news. It sounds like you have a good plan for keeping the marriage a healthy one.

 

mosley12 - February 28

snugglybugglys, i'll definately look into that one. a marraige counselor at my moms office gave me a list of books she recommends too. Mellissa, thanks especially to you...it was so nice having someone else married in the military! its easier to understand what its like if you live it!

 

mandee25 - February 28

That's great mosley. I am glad you are working things out! Cheers!!!

 

CyndiG - February 28

Yeah! You guys work it out, get a really strong marriage for you ds, then you can go make little Pierce Michael! I'm happy for you!

 

CyndiG - February 28

that should say your ds

 

hello - February 28

I was gonna reply to you a while ago that time apart doesnt fix things in my experience, One leaving the house isnt the answer as it is just putting the problem on hold as it still needs to be dealt with, sometimes it can work as it makes a person miss you, appreciate you etc as it seems to have done..... I wish you well, i sincerely mean that and i am glad your family is back together... Was this the guy that was in the military and acted as so still when he came home? Definitely stop keeping things to yourself, take time out for you, i truly hope he changes for you too cause nothing changes if nothing changes as they say...... so make it change k.... god bless....

 

mosley12 - February 28

cyndiG..he's already on me about little pierce michael! lol...i dont want a pierce michael for atleast 4 years! lol...

 

BriannasMummy - February 28

mosley12.. Im so happy that youre going to go back. Im crossing my fingers and my toes that everything works out, and your marriage gets strong, and that old cliche actually works out.. "and they lived happily ever after.. the end" ~Kristin~

 

mosley12 - March 2

well i came home last night. he was completely surprised..he was expecting me today he just kept telling me how happy he was to have us home, and wouldnt put ds down or leave my side. it felt like when we first got married, except wth a baby..lol. he must of told me how much he loved me and how sorry he was 20 times...we still have a long way to go, but we;re working on it

 

Mellissa - March 2

how exciting! I know he must have been so happy to see you.. and you probably felt a lot of relief seeing how much he cared. :) I'm very happy ya'll are working things out.

 

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