Mil Vent AGAIN

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ash2 - February 11

okay, now who is name calling ?? tisk, tisk !

 

Felisha - February 11

do you sit around and wait to be able to attack somone. i wasnt calling you a name i was stating a fact

 

flower.momma - February 11

Sorry Ash2, you should expect a lot of fallout from that comment. To be honest, that was a really stupid thing to say. I suggest you back down and hush up before this thread gets out of hand.

 

Felisha - February 11

and about posting threads ash2 atleast mine are serious questions and things i need support for and not unimportant stuff like anna nicole smith sounds like you need a life. if you have a problem with me i dont really care but being rude an unsupportive in uncalled for and unappreciated by many. and you have no idea what i look like so calling me a troll is way out of line. beacuse i will have you know i am probably way better looking than you and my personality is alot better than yours too. i have been taking care of my fathers home and family for years and up untill 2 months ago i not only took care of his i took care of mine so i know i am a great mother and woman and your petty smarta__s remarks will not make me feel otherwise

 

flower.momma - February 11

Welcome to home that lives within this house, Where loving little kids is all that really counts, The dishes in the sink, the crumbs upon the floor, And all the dirty laundry are secondary chores. Now don't a__sume I'm lazy by looking at this mess, I put in 40 hours and still don't take a rest. I polish little minds as bright as they can be, And sweep out tiny hearts and keep them pure and clean. Each and every soul is scrubbed until it gleams, I also pick up spirits should they ever lose a dream. So push the clothes on over and have yourself a seat - Excuse the toys and cookie crumbs, sticking to your feet! Judge me as a Mother, not the Maid I ought to be, I prefer four sparkling little lives, to a house dirt free!

 

flower.momma - February 11

Today I left some dishes dirty; The bed got made around 3:30. The diapers soaked a little longer, The odor grew a little stronger. The crumbs I spilled the day before, Are staring at me from the floor. The fingerprints there on the wall, Will likely be there still next fall. The dirty streaks on those windowpanes Will still be there next time it rains. Shame on you, you sit and say, Just what did you do today? I held a baby till she slept, I held a toddler while he wept. I played a game of hide and seek; I squeezed a toy so it would squeak. I pulled a wagon, sang a song, Taught a child right from wrong. What did I do this whole day through? Not much that shows, I guess that' s true. Unless you think that what I've done, Might be important to someone, With deep green eyes and soft brown hair, If that is true...I've done my share.

 

ash2 - February 11

Its funny, the only time i see you pop up is when their is drama on rise. And then you come post a fake name and see if you can be 2 people at once. I catch onto it. For all i know you could be some bored little dirty old man behind his computer . Whatever, i dont care. I have better things to do than argue with you. Now i am going to be the bigger and better person ( as if i wasnt already ) how is that for bragging rights ??and i am going to leave this alone, because if i am not talking about the subject of the thread, then it is no use talking about.I do not need your approval nor friendship, i have plenty of them already...now if you will excuse me, i have children to attend to and a " perfect " schedule to get to in the morning , as well as a " perfect life " with " perfect children " ...jealous yet ? good. Im through with you and your asumptions. BTW...you might want to go tend to your children too as well as your " husband " since you have such perfect advice on how to deal with relationships.....depression ? yeah right, seems like you have an answer for everything. You cant use your own husband and problems as an example. Just because you suffer from depression doesnt mean you can " diagnose " it to that poor girl's man.....pitiful....absolutly pitiful.

 

Felisha - February 11

flower momma did you write those i like them. they are cute.

 

Felisha - February 11

my man and baby are napping. and i may not be rich or famous. but my life is perfect. i have a healthy beautiful growing girl a wonderful loving man and i am as well healthy and happy. depression is a chemical imbalace and it cannot be helped and i hope for your sake anyone who reads your recent post isnt depressed you could make alot of enemies that way. i have all in life i could ever need money does not and will never make my world go round. ash2 i hope you are religious because you need some serious help and i dont think pills can help your problem. get over yourself. nobody is perfect nobody have a perfect life and you need a reality check really

 

flower.momma - February 11

Nope, the website where I found them didn't say. I love them. Honestly, when I die, I really don't think my last thoughts will be "gee whiz, I really kept a clean house."

 

Felisha - February 11

can i have that web address.

 

flower.momma - February 11

dennydavis.net/poemfiles/mthrpoem.htm and geocities.com/zoeyl_au/Poetry.html

 

in the woods - February 11

flower.momma - Bravo!. Thank you.

 

ash2 - February 11

flowermama, i always thought you were open minded, but i dont think what i said was " stupid" ( in your own words) ..and for your info, i do all those things in that post plus more. I work fulltime, my day starts around 7 am and i dont stop untill 2:30 pm when i go to work. I play with my kids countles hours including trucks, bikes, motorcycles, monsters, hide-n-seek, piggy back rides, songs, even school time. My whole morning is dedicated to them. But children learn from example, and what kind of example are you showing by having a dirty house ? You are teaching them that play is before responsibility. I devote my whole first 4 hours of my morning to my children, but my kids know that " whatever you mess up, you clean up ". We clean his room together, adn while he is watching his 30 min program, i skim the rest of the house. Again i am not saying the house has to be spottless, but in order, yes. While you are playing with them ? of course not. I dont go around my kids while they are playing and clean around them. I am right there playing candyland with him. But after it is done, they need to learn. I know 2 different people that are totally different from each other, and as a child i always went over to there house and recognized how messy and dirty and out of place everything was. Needless to say as mothers and housewives now, they are the same and so my point is that they taught their kids that it is " okay " to have a messy house as long as your having fun ". No, you have to MAKE time to clean. And when my kids get to be older perhaps in college or having his own apartment, it will not look like a pigstye and he will not be cla__sified as a " slob" whenever a lady comes over. Are you sending the wrong message to your kids about a dirty house ? I hope not, but dr. phil had a story about this on his show and how it can disrupt homes having it so disorganized. I am in no way saying that sahm's are lazy and should be cleaning every minute of every day, but i believe you should teach your children that they can play by theirselves for 30 min. or more a day so you can get things in order around the house. Flowermam, you stated in your post that i should expect alot of " fallout " from this comment....who gives a Sh*T. bring it on. Like i said, i state what i believe in, and people can take it as a grain of salt. And im not going to " back down " from what i believe in. I was not raised a coward and what not taught that way. Apparently popularity means more to you guys and " winning " people over to see who has the most votes are more important to you guys. Well then you have the wrong impression of me, because i could care less.

 

EMBERBABY - February 11

Since your dh and you made the decision together for you to be a sahm, then your MIL must respect that and mind her business. I am sure she did hurt your feelings, calling you selfish,but hopefully you the two of you can look past this.

 

Sindel - February 11

I think it is amazing of your dh to stand up for you like that. There is nothing worse than having someone comment on the way things are going on in your home. It could have been spotless yesturday and a disaster today.. Yestuday I had ALL my dishes done.. but today theres a whole new sink full.. Imagine..people actually living when they are home....lol Not to mention living with all boys it seems to get that way easy. I totally understand being at home at night.. My dh is switching to days for me as well and I am grateful and proud of him for all that he does.. Dont let her comments on your life and relationship get to you and next time she starts up.. just tell her she is rude. =)

 

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