My Vent

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Sindel - February 5

So here my hubby lets me sleep in.. it was great.. but what I woke up too made me wanna crawl back in under the covers and never come out again. The house was a disaster. Every cupboard door was wide open.. food, dishes, the stuff from lasts nights superbowl game was all over.. The livingroom the furniture was moved all over the place. I want to scream! Then to top it all off.. he must not have changed our son because I made some lunch we ate and then kohl was getting tired so its time for a change and a nap. Well I gather him and his stuffed monkey up and take them in there only to find out that his very old, very full wet poopy diaper is bunched up around his ankle inside his pj's. AHHHH i was so mad!!!!!!! There was poop everywhere! THAT MAN IS DRIVING ME NUTS. i love him.. but I feel like strangling him. Its like I have to do everything around this house... He works 3 12 hour days a week and it rotates to 4 days on.. he does take a day or two of overtime each week... he sleeps all day and works all night.. I never see him.. When he comes home early morning he takes his clothes off and leaves them where ever they land.. livingroom... the hallway... bathroom.. where ever.. or he'll even throw his clothes... and he works with dyes... on top of clean clothes!! Its hardly ever that he does anything in the house.. I shovel the driveway.. I take the garbage to the curb.. look after his aquarium, take care of our son.. laundry, i am his personal alarm clock cuz the man would never wake up to his alarm.. he once unplugged it cuz he couldnt find the button to hit snooze... I'm 23 weeks pregnant with a 16 month old, plus i work part time. I am feeling 100% unappreciated by my hubby and to top it all off half the time I am all emotional because I have no family or any real friends here... so I am by myself all day with no one to give me a much needed 5 minute break. My family all live in canada and I am here in wisconsin so i feel like i have no one... I am overwhelmed, overtired, and feel overworked... My son and I have a schedule or system.. where things like getting changed, diapers, clothes... having lunch.. naptime.. story time happen.. When he naps i run down and do laundry.. When he goes to bed for the night I clean up so there isnt a big hairy mess in the morning for me to stress out about.. So when he doesnt atleast try to keep up with things or messes or whatever it seems like there is a ton of stuff that needs to be done on top of everything else.. I got up and there he was lounging on the couch.. Now he is sleeping because he works overtime tonight and all i want to do is go in there and scream at the top of my lungs.. Sorry..I really just needed to vent because I feel like I am at my wits end. I cant get a babysitter because she babysits on the days i work so i feel bad asking for her to watch him other days.. She works full time too.. My MIL is crazy and tries her hardest to make everyone on my hubbys side of the family hate me.. even tho she is in michigan... And his aunt who used to watch kohl quite a bit suddenly cant watch him anymore.. they have new carpet is her reason.. or they are sick.. or they just never answer.. Its like they avoiding us.. I feel like I have cabinfever.. ugh.. Again sorry I just needed to get all this frustration off my chest.. even tho it still feels like its there.. blah well thanks for reading.

 

LisaB - February 5

Where in WI are you? I am in the Fox Cities. Anyway sorry your dh is drivng you crazy. I hope you get a break and much needed help soon. I get to the point your at freak out then my dh will help out. I really can't complain though cuz my dh is a great guy when it comes to helping around the house and keeping up with the baby. Its werid though my dh is a great dresser but can't get my ds in clothes that match to save his life??

 

Sindel - February 5

Hey well i kinda got a break tonight.. even though i had to go to work. It was nice to just get out of the house and away from everything. When my dh got up he helped out and did the dishes. But I still felt stressed out.. oh well.. Anyway we are in good old boring oshkosh where there is literally nothing to do. =)

 

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