Off Topic About Men Please Hlp Me

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incognito - January 14

Hi I need help I am happily married and been with my husband for over 5 yrs now. I have never cheated on him and never would. I do think about other men alot though (mostly an ex) I dont know why. I am very happy but I cant stop myself. Is something wrong with me? Is this normal or am I the only one who does this. I am really scared that this is wrong and in a wat cheating. Has anyone else felt like this. What did you do . Please help

 

SuzieQ - January 14

I sometimes think of my ex(s). Not a big deal, I think. I know I'm not going to cheat or anything. Infatuations are normal too, I think. To me, it's normal to fantasize or daydream about other guys, as long as you don't actually do it! Men fantasize about women a lot too, all the internet p___n and everything. We're only human :)

 

Lisastar9 - January 14

I have to agree with SuzieQ and say as long as you are not ACTING out on the things you think about,then there is no harm done. The saying the gra__s is greener on the other side and we want what we dan't have is so true. I even dream about one particular guy in HS. NOthing is wrong with the feeling only human nature. If we didn't have these feeling we wouldn't be normal. So think away, and I will dream.

 

incognito - January 14

thanks ladies but what if I do think about doing it? When it comes down to it I dont think I ever could. But I think about really doing it. ugh I feel like a nut lol

 

ash2 - January 15

Totally normal. As long as you dont actually go through with your fantasies...P.S. ummmm your man thinks about his ex's too ! ; )

 

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