Partner Doesn T Want Another Baby After Miscarriage

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sarahedwards - April 16

i was told my baby died at 10 weeks 2days last thursday,i was supposedly 12wks 5 days. the thing is this pregnancy wasnt planned although i got use to the fact i was going to be a mum for the 3rd time,he was still so against me having the baby.so when i miscarried he was upset slightly but relieved in a way.the thing is now i do want to have a baby,desperately but he doesnt and hes going to make sure we don't have another accident. what can i do?? HELP

 

littleangel - April 16

hi sarah, i am sorry for your loss, it is the hardest thing losing a baby, i know i lost mine DD at21wks. you both need time to greive over your loss and let you body heal even before think of having another. may be your partner feels shock at what has happen and he may have been coming round to the idea of your both having another. you really need to talk to each other and figure out why he does not want another. i am sorry i not that much help to you but if you do need to talk i am here to listien. take care and once again i am sorry for your loss. :) jo

 

teigan - April 24

have you actually asked him why he doesnt want another, it could be because you already have three and he feels as though that is enough, us women will go on forever having kids and i really feel for you that he might not want anymore when you do, but there is nothing you can do, and deffinatley DO NOT trick him, i know you proberbly hate me for saying that but so any people do it and its wrong!!!

 

Shauna - April 24

I am so sorry for your loss. The loss is still so brand new. Wait for awhile before talking about another baby. He may feel like you are trying to replace this baby. As hard as it may seem to accept, he needs time too. Again so sorry for this loss. : ) sa

 

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