Sadness

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linsy - October 6

i went to the doc, day before yest cause i was bleeding. supposed to be 10 weeks.. he checked and told me it was at 9 weeks.os was closed. was bleeding on and off brown and red .. some clotty tissue. sent me for some labs.. hcg came back 6600. said it should not be that low. last night i had the most severe cramps of my life. for two hours until i passed out alot of clots. lots of bleeding. today i go for the u/s. i know what to expect. really sad now.. been trying for 3 yrs. this ws the first. just need to let it out.

 

hopefull - October 6

im soo sorry for your loss.. please dont give up hope

 

emily - October 8

I have lost my first last year and I know how you feel. I am so sorry for your loss, but pretty soon you can try again and hope for the best.

 

linsy - October 8

thanks guys..just resting now.. everything pa__sed out.. saw all of it. nothing can be more sad. but i am strong and know it happens for the best.

 

Laura W - October 10

You are not alone, I am in the process of my first misscariage as well. My hcg levels came back at a 14 and I was supposed to be about 7 weeks. My levels rose to 26 in 48 hours which is good. but then my levels stayed at 26 and I started with the sever cramping and pa__sing clots this saturday (the 9th) Just know that the sadness is normal I am feeling it too. If you want to talk email me [email protected] We can try again together ;-)

 

dany - November 1

I am so sorry for your loss. I miscarried at 6.5 weeks about 2 years ago and am 12 weeks pregnant now. I can't tell you what a relief it was to reach the 12 week mark. Did you have to have a D&C done?

 

DON'T GIVE UP - November 5

I fully understand. I AM GOING THRU THE SAME THING. I WAS SO EXCITED. THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME. DON'T GIVE UP. ANYTHING WORTH HAVING IS NOT GOING TO BE EASY TO GET.

 

amber - November 5

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. GOD BLESS YOU AND MAY HE EASE YOUR PAIN AND GRANT YOU WITH A HEALTHY PREGNANCY SOON

 

linsy - November 6

thanks to all of u! i lost it in mid oct. i am better now. waiting for my normal periods to come. won't try until next year . i did not have the d/c done. pa__sed everything out naturally. saw the placenta. can be gruesome. anyways wish everyone good luck.

 

Tori - March 19

Dont rush into trying again b/c when you get pregnant again you'll worry to much about it and stress its good for you. I lost mine the day before my wedding day I'd been with my husband two years and so we started trying for that instant family. I didnt know if I could get married after that lost. But he said we'll try again in a year when life comes down and here I am 11 months later and three months ago. Dont give up hope. Be strong as only a women can do.

 

Kat - March 20

Tori - I was hoping some of us would try to help each other get through our m/c and look to a new pregnancy, helping to get in good shape for the next one mostly. Sounds like you might be a help to others. I am not sure if you are saying you already had a baby since your m/c. Either way, maybe you could join in and offer support? I am trying to get something started under "Advice Anyone?" in the miscarriage section. :) ~Kat

 

Lily - March 20

I am so sorry. I am going through the same thing. I know how you feel. I saw the heartbeat and lost the baby around 11 weeks. I am so sad and so very angry. Please know you are not alone -- we can all do this toghether!

 

claire - March 28

i also had the same things happen to me over the easter holidays being 10 weeks pregnant i thought it wouldnt happen.i went to a & e on friday and was told i have to awit untill tuesday for the pregnancy unit to ring me for an ultrasound as it is bank holiday i think that is bad as i have to wait so long to find out.i think that i lost it on saturday as i lost a big clot down the toilet i didnt have the guts to gat it out and have a look.i luckily have 2 children already but was really looking forward to another one im really gutted now.

 

Angie - March 28

Hi linsy. I'm very sorry to here about your situation. I'm feeling pretty sad too. I was having much of the same symptoms you had about 2 wks ago. I've never been preg before...so I went to er. To find out that I was preg in both tubes, left tube approx 1 mo. 3wks and rt tube just a few weeks. Lots of abdominal bleeding and both tubes were taken. My heart goes out to you. I have always wanted babies, so I know. I just don't understand why no one understands that I am a grieving mother? [email protected]

 

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