3rd Miscarriage In A Row

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mayasmommy - November 29

Hi everyone, I am currently going through my third miscarriage in about 5 months and I was wondering if anyone has ever experienced this and gone on to have a normal pregnancy. I have a 3 year old daughter from a previous relationship, but I just got re-married and we really want another child. We are devastated! Dr wants me to try progesterone supp. next time. How long should I wait to try again? Any thoughts would be helpful. I am 26 years old btw.

 

Yve - December 6

Hi, Im so sorry for your loss !! I too just suffered my 3rd miscarriage last week in 6 months !!! I to have a very beautiful, healthy 22 month old daughter so I am soo confused to what is happening !! Two of my miscarriages were missed miscarriages that ended in d&c :( So now I am beinbg refered to a high risk gynocologist for some evalutaions and testing !! It is soo devastating and hard to cope especially so close to christmas but I have to try and stay strong for my daughter !! Please let me know how things turn out for you and if they ever find a reason why !! I feel your pain and hope that you will have another healthy baby soon !!

 

Yve - December 6

Hi, Im so sorry for your loss !! I too just suffered my 3rd miscarriage last week in 6 months !!! I to have a very beautiful, healthy 22 month old daughter so I am soo confused to what is happening !! Two of my miscarriages were missed miscarriages that ended in d&c :( So now I am beinbg refered to a high risk gynocologist for some evalutaions and testing !! It is soo devastating and hard to cope especially so close to christmas but I have to try and stay strong for my daughter !! Please let me know how things turn out for you and if they ever find a reason why !! I feel your pain and hope that you will have another healthy baby soon !!

 

Yve - December 6

Hi, Im so sorry for your loss !! I too just suffered my 3rd miscarriage last week in 6 months !!! I to have a very beautiful, healthy 22 month old daughter so I am soo confused to what is happening !! Two of my miscarriages were missed miscarriages that ended in d&c :( So now I am beinbg refered to a high risk gynocologist for some evalutaions and testing !! It is soo devastating and hard to cope especially so close to christmas but I have to try and stay strong for my daughter !! Please let me know how things turn out for you and if they ever find a reason why !! I feel your pain and hope that you will have another healthy baby soon !!

 

Yve - December 6

Hi, Im soo sorry for your loss !! I too just recently suffered my 3rd miscarriage last week in 6 months :( I have a very beautiful and healthy 22 month old little girl so I am soo confused to what is happening !! Two of my miscarriages were missed miscarriages and eneded in d&c :( Its so devastating and hard to cope, especially around Christmas !!I am now being recommended to a high risk gynocologist for some testing and investigations to try and find out the reason !! Please let me know how things turn out for you and if they ever find out the reason why ! I feel your pain and I hope that you will get that baby of yours soon !!

 

Yve - December 6

Sorry about the repeated posts !! My computer is acting up and I dont know how to delete them ??

 

amunan02 - April 9

I have had 3 in a row as well... all ending around 6-6.5 weeks in.  the second had a rare chromosonal abnormality Trisomy 4, my doc didnt even know it existed.  My first was natural so we couldnt test it and this last one is currently being tested.  would love stories from those who have had 3 in a row with or without previous children.  We dont have any children yet so we worry if we ever will.  thanks ladies!

 

MilanaK - April 18

Hello girls! I'm so sorry your stories. I'm in the same situation. I don't have any children. My husband and I are ttc for 9 years already. I had 3 MCs during this period. All of them ended around 8 weeks. Now I'm lost. I don't want to get pregnant again. I don't want to live through MC again. I'm 38 and I just want to stop this infertility struggle and losses. Everyone around is getting pregnant, gave birth, talk about their kids… They LIVE and enjoy life. And I’m just watching all these… Don’t get me wrong! I’m happy for them. But I’m tired of trying and failing. I’m tired to hope and then lose everything in a moment. I think 9 years are enough for us. I decided to turn to surrogacy. I think it will be better for our family. I hope so... Anyway wish all of you best of luck! 

 

Denizerer - May 29

Hi,

Feeling sad while reading the posts here. Was wondering if you had discussed having a workup with your doctor, like after your first or second miscarriage? And how long until you were pregnant with your second child before you lost it?

 

enawatson - May 19

I hope you are doing fine. I am so sorry for you. It must be a hard situation for you. But it was in fate. Miscarriages are so hard to cope up with. I had 3 miscarriages in six months. I was diagnosed with uterine polyps. I was not able to conceive a baby later. I went for the treatments but failed. I also tried IVF and put my luck in it. But it failed. I was so upset but that was fate. In the end, I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic was renown for its surrogacy. It is a fertility clinic. In Europe surrogacy is legal. So it was convenient for me to go there. I am a happy mother now.

 

serra1 - May 19

I trust you are doing fine. It must be a difficult circumstance for you. In any case, it was in destiny. Unnatural birth cycles are so difficult to adapt up to. I dint faced it but I have faced infertility for 10 years. The reason was unknown. Even the doctors never satisfied with their answers. I went for the medications however fizzled. I likewise attempted IUI and put my fortunes in it. Be that as it may, it fizzled. I was so disturbed yet that was destiny. At last, I chose to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic was well known for its surrogacy. In Europe surrogacy is lawful. So it was advantageous for me to go there. I am a glad mother now.

 

FloraRustin88 - May 19

So sorry for your losses. I've also had 3 MCs in my years as a TTC and marriage. this year I'm having an IVF at a repro center in Ukraine. Wish me luck! Well, I don't wanna disappoint you. But, I'm also a PCOS patient. But, things didn't work well for me. So, yeah! Well, I don't wanna disappoint you. Just don't waste any more years. If you think that your obs isn't giving you satisfying answers. Just try a second opinion... There are still many assisted procedure that can help you in having a child. So, yeah! Wish you all the best! xx

 

riazoyer - May 19

Feeling sad while reading the posts here. Was wondering if you had discussed having a workup with your doctor, like after your first or second miscarriage? And how long until you were pregnant with your second child before you lost it?

 

sindy888 - May 19

Hi. I know it must be really hard for you. You are going trough a tough time.Dear, don't lose hope. Stay strong. I hope things go smooth for you soon. Fingers crossed. Sending baby dust to your waly. All the best.

 

Esther65 - May 21

Hey there! I hope you are doing fine. I feel so sorry to hear your losses. Miscarriage is the worst thing ever. It is a very devastating situation when women have a miscarriage. I also had miscarriage thrice. After that, I came to know about surrogacy. I had blessed with a baby girl through surrogacy. I suggest you that you should also try surrogacy. It is a safe option.

 

Stephine648 - May 23

I also had 3 miscarriages from my first marriage. 
Now at the age of 43 i am married again to someone else and we want a baby of our own. 
I know at this age it is quite difficult to have a baby off my own womb. 
Thinking of previous complications regarding pregnancy i would not try to be pregnant again.
From my last marriage i had many complications regarding pregnancy. 
I don't have any other options left so far so surrogacy is the only solution to my problems i guess. 
My husband agreed for surrogacy so i started looking for clinics with good surrogacy records. 
I founded many clinics regarding surrogacy and i picked up the few clinics too for further discussion with them. 
I contacted many clinics and told them every aspect of our complications. 
From their satisfied answers i guess some clinics are the best solution for having a baby. 
So i suggest that you people should also do your own research regarding surrogacy and should contact different clinics for further details. 
Everytime miscarriage happened to me.
But i'm worried about many other aspects like my behaviour towards the baby after knowing everything. 
Like when the baby grows up what i should tell him/her. 
So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy to have our own children. 
Someone raising a child via surrogacy should share their experience.

 

erin_wales - May 23

I know it must be extremely hard for you. You are going through very hard times. Dear, don't lose the heart. Remain strong. I hope that things will go smoothly for you. Fingers crossed. Baby dust to you my love. All the best.

 

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