Anyone Still Trying To Conceive After A Miscarriage

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madison - February 20

wondering how long it took everyone to conceive, or if you still are trying, and for how long now?

 

Suebee - February 20

Hey Madison.. I had a m/c in December. TTC last month but AF came. TTC again this weekend as conditions seem back on track finally so hopefully with alittle luck I'll have a BFP soon!!! Keeping my fingers crossed. From your question, I imagine you have also had a m/c. If so, I'm really sorry. If you're ttc, good luck to you! Hope you'll have a better go of it this time around!

 

parkermegan - February 20

I mc this past Jan. I first started spotting on the 28th. I am not really sure the exact date of my m/c. I never had a heavy day in particular. I am planning on trying to conceive this month! I am hoping I will ovulate within a few weeks. I finally got a bfn on my hpt which detects at 25 so I am hoping my levels are almost to 0 and I will ovulate soon. I plan on trying asap. Did anyone try before gettin af after a mc? I am getting my last hcg levels today hopefully really low ones, and then going to my ob in the morning for the first time in 3 wks! Hopefully she will still give us the ok to try asap! Good luck to all you!

 

Nicole0929 - February 20

I m/c on jan 23. I had a positive test on the 22nd but began bleeding the very next day 9(heavily) My ob took my levels two days later and they were very low already. I was about 5 weeks, so very early. It was still very upseeting though. I am ttc and havent gotten my af yet either. I can usually tell when I will ovulate due to monitor, cm, and I get crampy the day of. Nothing yet but I hope soon. My cycles were around 35 days log before. I guess you usually ovulate 2-4 weeks after a m/c. But everyone is different. Good luck!!!!!

 

Lilu - February 20

I had a stillbirth in August and we've been trying since October and I just feel as if it'll never happen.

 

madison - February 20

hi everyone, thanks for the responses. yes i had a miscarriage and a D&C 2 weeks ago. i went for my follow-up appt today but my doctor didnt say anything about checking my hormone levels, he said they should be back to 0 already??? he said we can start trying asap but i think we're going to wait until i get my first af then start trying again. i just hope i dont have to wait too long for it to come.! Lilu, i'm so sorry to hear about your loss and good luck to you, as well as everyone else. maybe we can have some early 2007 babies! :)

 

D D - February 20

hey ... Madison I want bells and whistles to go off when I ovulate but they don't. ; ). I m/c on 12/3/05 and has AF on 1/3/06 got HPT on 1/30/06 and m/c again on 2/11/06. I am trying to give myself a 2 cycle break at the docs request. Hard cause dh won't use a condom and i won't take the pill. So I am actually charting aroung my O this month. I make no promises next month. if I am feeling good we may try then.

 

parkermegan - February 20

Nicole, it sounds like we are right together with all this! Did you mc naturally? If so how long did the bleeding last for you? Mine is about 3 weeks and I am just now stopping. I think! lol. As I said before I never really had a heavy day, my heaviest days were like a period. Mostly it has been light. When did your dr tell you you would ovulate after the mc?

 

Nicole0929 - February 20

parkermegan - I had a natural m/c. I woke up jan 23 to heavy bleeding. It seemed like more than normal with a lot of blood clots. I was told to use pads instead but I usually wear tampons so its hard to say. It may have been normal period for me. I was also pretty crampy for the first day or two. My af is usually heavy for the first two days. Altogether it lasted about 7-8 days. My dr said because it was a natural m/c, my body was taking care or everything on its own. She said I could start ttc as soon as I was ready. I am going to contact her this thursday in regards to ovulating/getting af. I called her last week but she was out of town. I spoke to the nurse and she said usually you will get af 4-6wks later but it varies with each person. I will let you know when I talked to her.

 

parkermegan - February 20

nicole, how far along were you

 

madison - February 20

did any of you try before getting af? my doctor said i can but i am a little nervous about it. well my sister in law and a friend both told me today they are pregnant, and due about the same time i would have been due. its so hard, i am happy for them but jealous and sad for my own situation, too.

 

Nicole0929 - February 20

parkermegan- I was very early about 5weeks. madison-I haven't gotten af yet since my miscarraige and I am ttc. I understand about others being pregnant. I have found out about 2-3 others who are due around when I would have been. I also have a friend who is due in may. I am soo excited for them but its sad sometimes because I loved being pregnant with my son (now 14 1/2 mo) I look forward to it soo much. It was my first miscarriage and although it was very early it was still very disappointing and upsetting. It was my first m/c and you just dont understand until it happens to you.

 

Kim L - February 21

Hey there ladies: I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. Miscarriage is so sad and so devastating when it happens. After both of my miscarriages I tried before the first AF came but I found my cycles both times to be totally erratic and unpredictable, and have never gotten pregnant again immediately. After the first miscarriage, I got first af exactly 1 month after the bleeding stopped. I got pregnant again on the 3rd cycle. After second miscarriage I got first af about 1 month after the bleeding stopped and I got pregnant on that first cycle. Each time I got pregnant I charted my cycle, recording my cm and temp. I've never tried opk but I hear lots of good things about them. I hope you all have success conceiving again very soon!

 

Nicole0929 - February 22

hey everyone. Hows everything going???

 

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