Do You Give Up Or Keep Trying

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dorothy - May 31

hi Im dorothy and i just found out an hour ago That i have a blighted ovum mind you im 36 i miscarried in feb 06 at about 7wks ad fo some reason all didnt come out an i hadto have a d&c my husband and i decided to try again and hadand u/s today and there was NOTHING IVE HAD NO BLEEDING NONE no crampimg nothing .Im so hurt right now I feel the onlyway to keep this kind ofpain away is to give it up! We both have kids from previous marriages

 

HopefulK - May 31

Dorothy, I'm so sorry your in such a bad place. I've been through some pretty harsh stuff myself in this last year so I know the pit your in at the moment and how hopless and frustrated you feel. Only you and your dh know if its the right time to stop or not. Be good to yourself and allow yourself to grieve for both your losses. Sending hugs to you and your dh xx

 

Chas - May 31

Hi dorothy, I know how you must feel. It's really hard trying month after month. I had a m/c and d&c in April and we are trying again. I am waiting for af now... and I am really hoping for a positive, but I can't help but to think... "is it going to happen again?" "will it be sucessful?" I just turned 31, and I know I still have plenty of time, but it gets so discouraging. I agree with hopeful, only you and your dh can decide whether or not to give up. But, there is no reason to give up all together, you could take a few months off and just see what happens. How far along are you now?? If the u/s showed nothing.. maybe it's just too early ? Good luck and hang in there. I know how hard it is.

 

dorothy - May 31

thanks so much for the love you all are showing.chas i am in my six wk one of the nurses said maybe im early but my last period was apr. 19, and also they did a blood test of some sort I guess thats how they came up with a blighted ovum

 

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