How Long Does It Take To Feel Happy Again

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wantanotheraftertr - March 9

My hcg levels were going up and now they are going down Re says I will mc sometime this week. I cry alot now and feel like I will never be happy again. I feel like since I havent actually had the mc that it is making things harder. Does it get any easier once you lose the baby so you can move on? I feel like a downer to everyone around me and hate to be that way! I am normally very happy and love to be around people but right now I hurt so bad how do I get thru this?

 

stefkay - March 9

Hi, I totally understand how you feel and I really think this forum helped me to get thru the worst of it. And for me the worst was definitely the waiting for it to happen part. I started looking to the future and getting ready to try again almost as soon as the m/c was finished and the spotting stopped. I cried a lot and screamed and had a breakdown in the lab at the hospital (the day I found out I had an u/s and the dr. sent me down to the lab for blood tests to start finding out what's going on since I've had other m/c's). But it does get better, it just doesn't feel like it right now. My m/c was on Jan. 23rd and the hardest times come less frequently but it is usually when I think of what "could have been" and see other pregnant women and babies. This is a wonderful place to vent with lots of women with tons of knowledge and experience. {HUGS}

 

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