2 Replies
??? - April 15

i am or still 3 weeks pregnet. i have been in alot of pressure and stress to finish high school in june. and this morning i wake to pee and a brown thing was there and it was a stem and in the end if the stem was a circle and a red dot in middle it wasnt big but maybe a inch. i told my friends today and they said i must have lose the baby or it could have been a piece of my ovires or it was a blood clog or something. but if i lost the baby wouldnt i be bleeding, but i am not. today i didnt feel like dizzy in the morning i felt fine like normal. i just dont know what this means.i am so confused and scared if it was my ovires and i cant have kids in the furture. HELP! THANKS!!


marlene - April 16

If you are afraid and don't know where to go. -- Go to a planned parenthood and have a pg test and ask questions. Everything is confidential and if cost is a problem, they work with you on that. That is where I started when I was 17 and had questions. It would not be your ovaries. Go and ask questions.


to 18 and confused - April 16

you should get get advice from a doctor. your friends don't really know what is going on with you medically. It's not your ovary. How did you find out you were pregnant? are you 3 weeks late? If you are only 3 weeks pregnant, then June would not be an unrealistic date to finish high school. if you are pregnant, you need to make sure you have a high school diploma to get a suitable job to provide for your child. These days, that is almost not enough, unless you have special skills and drive to be successful w/out a college degree. You can't even start to prove that to a prospective employer w/out even a high school diploma! It's not about pressure, it's about reality. You should find someone you trust and can really talk to about your future. Having a baby shouldn't be the end of your life, make a life for yourself that your child and most importantly YOU will be proud of. Best of luck to you in your future choices.



You must log in to reply.

Are you New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password?
Need Help?
New to the forum?

Sign Up Here!

Already a member?
Please login below.

Forgot your password?
Need Help?