IN YOUR 30 S AND TTC PART 6

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NVgirl - May 1

Just thought "IN YOUR 30'S AND TTC -- PART 5" was taking too long to upload so I decided to create "PART 5" of course... with a little nudge! Hope you can join in on chats we have going on in this thread!

 

NVgirl - May 1

Welp, it is final… I am not going to Vegas. =o( I have a feeling I will be very bored without DH around for the next several days. He said he’ll be leaving around noon on Monday and coming back on Friday. I think I’ll just have to try and keep myself busy! DELTA: Weird dream girl! Sometimes things come true and maybe you really know that you are carrying twins, and you just cannot believe it officially as of yet. Now wouldn’t that be something?! MINDY: My appointment to have the scope down my esophagus is scheduled for May 17th, but my OBGYN does not want me to go. She wants me to postpone it at least until sometime in June when I am in my 2nd trimester because of the knock-out meds they want to give me. So I am waiting until I attend my “OFFICIAL” OB appointment on May 9th – to find out if everything is fine and dandy before I go and change my throat appointment. I know that is being pessimistic, but I just am still in the weird pg state of uncertainty. Today I went overboard eating Sushi… and have been burping and feeling miserable ever since! We did the all you can eat… usually never do that ever… DH & I usually split 4 long rolls and are good. Tonight I tried to eat 4 long rolls myself and nearly exploded. I yelled at DH and said do not touch my stomach or it will all come back up… I swear I have been so miserable I want to just puke and get it over with LOL! Anyhow took some Maloxx. Hopefully it will do the trick. Welp it is almost 11. Need to jump in the shower. Until next time.

 

deltabwa - May 1

really glad ya started 6 :-) the other was way to long. how do we yack so dang much lol NV - ughh on the sushi. i do not like sushi so cant relaly comment except i would explode anyway with 2 bites lol actually.. a good friend on mine from maryland, has a best friend that opened a japanses rest. with his (now) wife and they made me certian kinds of sushi that was cooked. i know oxy-moron lol dont know what it was but it was slightely cooked and really good. had the sauce cooked on it so once cooked, was kinda orangish/brown color. if that makes any sense lol anyway taht was the only stuff i could eat. A group of us from work would go to this AYCE chinese joint and they would have sushi and ppl would load up on it and i jsut never got it. I tried it, even the i dunno, california roll? is that the one without the fish? dunno but didint like that one either. just not my thing. but the japanese fried fish, awesome. I understand the pessimism (sp) on the appt and cant beleive your other doc wanted to do in the 1st tri. didnt think they did any surgery in the 1st tri. sorry you're staying home. im sure its the best decision. of course now that you're home, you wont be sick at all.. isnt that always the way. Yeah, my dream was weird. and i keep thinking that i also thought twins before i tested but i dunno.. just dont really think that anymore. 1 more day... ughhhh I got on the scale again this morning and have gained and ADDITIONAL 2 lbs. That makes it 5 1/2 -6 lbs in 1 week. OMG this can not be happening. I joined this website babyfit.com so i record everything i eat and know how many calories ive had for the day and not once have i gone over the calorie recommendation that they give me. Ok, except saturday in the big city lol i didnt record that day but i know i went over.. lol) heck its only ben 2 days that ive actually gotten to the rec. mostly its less than what they say so how can it possibly be 5+ lbs taht ive gained in a week. this can NOT go on! This will make me do a little diet whether i want to or not cuz i cant NOT gain this much weight . MO - how ya feeling today? I also want to ask you a question MO... since the m/c is so fresh, does it-would it, bother you to hear of everyone else's bfp's? or pg stories? I know i think about it when i write now and i THINK you dont want us walking on pins and needles and being afraid to say something that would hurt you, and we dont want to do or say anything that would continue to bring it up for you, but we also dont want to leave you out. of anything. So before something is accidentaly said, or not said, I thought I would ask and see how you are feeling about it. We luv ya hun and completely understand your response either way. SUE - like your temp from yesterday too :-)

 

Morrison1 - May 1

Ahhhh. Part 6. Pulled RIGHT up. No waiting...no dilly dallying. Like it. MICHELE - you ate cooked sushi right? Dumb question, but had to ask. I love fish and know it will be hard when I am pg to stay under 12 ounces on some weeks, but that's ok. DELTA -that is some kooky dream stuff going on. What? Are you pregnant? I hear pregnant peopel get dreams like that all the time. Ha....though it is true. I also think our sixth senses are correct most of the time, for good or bad, and maybe there is a reason you find yourself thinking twins. Two baby Deltas. What the HELL is this world coming to??!! Lol. SUE...what's happenen? What you been up to this weekend? You are down to the 1ww now, I think, right?? I feel lost, I am sorry. AL - worked in the yard again yesterday...thought of you. Most my stuff has come back pretty well and then yesterday I planted a dwart weigalia, a hydrangea and a viburnum as well as some ground cover. Right now, I am finding this work very healing (until of course a freeze comes and kills everything, and then I will feel horrible, but for now...). I am OK this morning. A bit of balance actually, but have no idea why. I am sitting here debating whether I should go back to work and then keep thinking that if I am debating this much, then I shouldn't go. One more day won't hurt and it will give me a chance to prepare myself to return, you know? I hate to waste PTO - they should let us take bereavement if you ask me (perhaps I should take that to congress??)...anyway...what do you think? Go? Stay home? Speaking of, Michele...I think you make the right choice. It IS Vegas, but it will always be there and you and dh can go back when you are feeling better. Rest should be pretty high on the list right now. So, the bleeding is almost over. I wouldn't say it's spotting since it is still reddish...but there is hardly any. Is that bad? Hmmmm...I think DE you said as long as the sak is out then probably everything is out. How is there so much less blood? Hmmm. Anyway...we bd'd. Can you believe it? I don't know what is coming over me. I know last time I wasn't ready for like 3 weeks....so it's weird. Hmmm. I think I might be losing my mind. If I start to talk in jibberish, can you guys please smack me around?

 

deltabwa - May 1

my vote - STAY lol

 

Morrison1 - May 1

DE - I like your vote. Home it is. So...as for the second part of your last post...thank you for being aware and compa__sionate and thinking of me. I appreciate it. And I am fine with your stories. I would like it I said it never made me sad, but when it does, it is sadness in a happy way. I am SOOOO happy for your gals, I want us all to have healthy happy babies. I see you as my support and my friends and I want to see the best for you. Our experience brings us together and we know that it isn't going to happen for all of us the same way at the same time, but I feel strongly that it WILL happen, and that soon enough we will all have our little peanuts to love and show off. Seriously...no eggshells around me. Cripes DELTA...don't MAKE me turn this car around!!!!

 

deltabwa - May 1

blah blah blah.. everyone is ent_tled to an emotional, sappy, concerned moment.. arent they? dang .. blame it on the hormones ;-)

 

Morrison1 - May 1

Well, if you WEREN'T concerned...THEN I'd be p__sed.

 

deltabwa - May 1

im waiting for SUE to get her lazy b___t outta bed so i can see her temp.. I think it's about time to POAS! Ok, she can do it and not look, ill look and tell the results... hmmm.. now.. how will that work out? hmmmmm beam me up scotty????

 

deltabwa - May 1

bring it on tough girl....... :-)

 

deltabwa - May 1

Am I gonna ahve to meet YOU behind the store too??

 

Morrison1 - May 1

Hmmmm. If my hcg was 22 last Wednesday and I am nearly done bleeding now...I could be getting ready to o again soon? Why so much faster this time? Weird, weird. Anyway...my temps are still up around 98...so they need to drop I guess right? Weird to have high temps AND be bleeding. I feel like ananomoly.

 

Morrison1 - May 1

Seriously SUE. Get your lazy a$$ outta bed.

 

Suebee - May 1

Ha... lazy a$$ out of bed eh!! I wish. I just took papa to the peepee dr for a regular check up. I was there at 9am this morn and they take hours.. so just made some lunch and he's gone done for a nap. Have to go pick up meds once I'm done here. Gosh, where do I start.. part 6!!! sheesh.... MO...I am sooo glad things are looking up for you. We care greatly about you and am glad that DE mentioned her/our concern over your feelings. I'm really glad that your ok. Wow, you bd'd already. Heck, if you feel up to it then go for it.. Why not?... I say.. stay.. that's my vote.. but I think you've already made up your mind. On the other thread you asked about the blood work they're doing on me. I hadn't forgotten just been crazy with everyone's appt's here and there. Ok, so last friday the 28th, I went and got my day 22 blood work done. They tested progesterone, fsh, lh, prl, tsh, estrogen, dheas, free testosterone and something with an f.. can't figure that one and glucose, hemoglobin, rubella, and prenatal antibodies. 2nd blood test that I go for on thursday the 4th- day 28 is for progesterone, and the 3rd blood test on the 11th-day 35 is progesterone and beta test. Now I either see him day 38 or day 3 of my next cycle and I a__sume I'll get the results at that time. He also did a complete physical exam and said everything looked fine. What tests are you having done? DE... glad you had a good time in the BIG city. Boy, you really must've pigged out gaining ALL that weight.. hehe... now that should p__s ya off....LOL...Not a fan of sushi either but I'll take fried fish anyday. Always tastes better fried although is way more fattening...That's cool about your dream. I'm telling ya.. I think you're having twins.. Guess we'll find out tommorrow..!! woohoo!! I can't believe after whining to DH for like 3 yrs about OG that you didn't even go in the end.. wimp!! Quit your whining now.. you had a chance and you picked outback.. although I can't blame ya for that one.. yumm. DH and I didn't end up going for steak on the weekend so I still have that hankering for it and they have a crab special to go with the steak. What the hell was he thinkin... I think we'll go sometime this week. And yes, my sis does do that alot.. She spoils us but I also do her laundry and vacuum her room, cook dinner, clean so her weekends are free. Heck, I have to do all that anyway so what's another person right?.. We spoil each other..MI... Ok, after hearing the girls I have changed my vote to stay home. I mean, you're already doing that but thought I'd throw my 2cents in. It's probably a wise decision and Vegas will always be there. You can use this time to just chill out and get some rest. I know it sucks not to go but when you're feeling better maybe DH can take ya.. So your apptment's coming up soon. Glad that their going to do that test in your 2nd tri. That was kinda scary that they were thinking of doing that in your 1st tri.... Bad girl.. too much sushi.... hope you feel better. It must be hard because you couldn't eat for so long and now you just want to eat all the time. That's tough.... It'll be nice when everything gets back to normal eh? ... Okay, I posted my temp for ya DENASTY... little chart stalker...hehe....Well, I should get to the pharmacy.. According to FF who changed my o date to cd14 so I wouldn't test to soon, although they figure I o'd on cd12 I'm anywhere between 11-13 dpo??? Might test thursday if AF doesn't show. Had some mild cramping today so we'll see.... Sue...out! OH, I forgot.. AA have you o'd yet???

 

aalice - May 1

MO: I agree with Delta, stay home. My was by luck (in some ways) right in the middle between Christmas and New Years and I had taken the week off so I had a week before I had to face going in, and I think that that was just barely enough. I still had some moments where I would close the door on my office and bawl, but it was only once and awhile, where I think it would have been all the time if I had gone back sooner. And the one thing I noticed was I got really riled up over anything that seemed unfair (I mean I do that anyways, but more so, not really reasonably so) for awhile and it just took time for it to mellow. But that first week, was so hormonally all over the place, I'd be fine one moment and at peace with things, and then bawling the next, and then it to would pa__s.... On the gardening frontier, I love hydrangeas I think I'm going to plant some more here, my problem isn't the freezing, instead, it's the 104 degree days. Sigh. We went from winter weather to 90 in three days. Oh and I keep meaning to answer your question on what I do for work and then forgetting by the time I get here, so HA, I have finally remembered. I do computer tech support, I specialize in viruses. NV: Oh and I think I'd stay home from Vegas if I were in your situation, also. Yum sushi... (sorry DE) but I've heard that over and undereating seems to really affect the m/s thing... But your probably well aware of that... :P So I saw the thing on hyperemesis on a show that my TIVO randomly recorded for me. I just about fell off the sofa, I was grabbing my laptop to look it up and tell you, since it was just so dead on to all you extreme m/s symptoms. I was so happy to hear that most people that have it go on to have healthy kids, as long as they stay hydrated, keep sucking down that water. :) DE: Twins, twins, twins.... :) You guys are totally cracking me up. SUE: One week and counting! Now that I've launched into the waiting, I keep looking for ways to distract myself... Video games are good... Oh and MO: I think what you are saying goes back at you to, don't ever feel like you can't share or talk about what you're feeling or going through also... <hugs> SUE: Should I join in on the bandwagon, you awake yet? :P

 

aalice - May 1

SUE: Guess I overlapped, should have guessed you were running about, you all seem much more morning people than I am, I hate mornings... And I'm guessing O happened saturday or sunday, since the I did another opk and it was negative. Oh and just to gripe, the stupid fertility monitor still doesn't work, it has the exact same error message it had when I sent it to them, it only comes up when it asks you to test, which I wrote on a sheet of paper and explained it to them. I am so irritated, so now I have to call back and yell at them again. ARG.

 

Morrison1 - May 1

Oh my god. You guys won't believe this. I just get a call from my a__sistant and Queen B lost her baby. Oh, my, my, my. I feel horrible. I probably bought a one way ticket to hell with all my p__sing and moaning, and now I feel like the BIGGEST heel. I will do my best to be there for her...However, while I do not wish this on ANYONE...EVER...I don't think it will make me "like" her a lot more than I ever have. Anyway...horrible. Just horrible. Last Tuesday was the day she had her first u/s and there, evidently, was a h/b. So...I guess everything was going OK...but sounds like she lost it last night...don't know any details. Will, of course, let you now. Anyway...I am in shock almost more about that than I am about my own m/c. AL...on a side note...where do you live again? Can't remember. Sounds like Denver, to be honest. SUE ...I gotta read that list of tests again...two or three times...it's a lot of tests. DH just came in with lunch...check back in a bit.

 

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