Ovulation But No Sex

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mani30 - May 12

hey everyone, i dont know if any one of you remember me, i use to come here often but since my last m/c , 5th one in a row, i took a break, .. I had extensive testing done, saw a m/c specialist here and all the results came negative.. nothing indicated any kind of problem, so im back on clomid/ prometrium cycle. I am suppose to be ovulating any of the days now and go thru cycle monitoring. but guess what.. since the last 3 days we havenot been able to do anything. my dh just cant do it.. im so depressed, stressed, i hate this bloody waiting game and dont want to loose the opportunity..im just venting,, please gimme any suggestions..

 

BrendaW - May 12

What kind of tests did you have done?

 

Suebee - May 12

Hi mani....Gosh, I'm really sorry about the m/c's. As Brenda said, what kind of testing are they doing or I should say have they done? I know that alot of the time is just a fluke or bad timing if you will but having 5 in a row would lead me to believe that there must be something just not right. Of course, this is just my opinion. They said nothing is wrong but they have you on clomid? Hummm... I dunno, maybe someone has some insight on this. Also, what do you mean about dh just can't do it. Are you referring to him not being able to ejaculate or get hard.. sorry tmi.. the reason I ask.. is because I have a girlfriend who's dh has ED (erectile dysfunction). Her ob said that there are other ways to inseminate. I won't go into detail as I don't know the extent of what you're saying but if either of those are the case, you can certainly try other things rather then let the opportunity pa__s by. Again, I'm really sorry about the m/c's and wish you luck in the future!

 

mani30 - May 12

thanx for the reply. my background is that I donot ovulate everymonth do i need to be induced via prometrium to get the periods and then with the aid of fertility pill try to get preggo. the checked ANTI DS DNA, ANTI SS DNA, ANTI LYMPHOCYTE, ANTI-CARDIOLIPIN, RUSSELS VIPER VENOM AND 3 MORE i dont remember . but the clinic I go is quiet good and prompt with services, but the doc did put me on aspirin as safety measure and If i ovulate they may give me a shot to release egg, but I would know about it tomm after cycle monitoring ultra sound and blood test. its just sometimes it all gets too much,. as for DH..yes im referring to my hubby. Sue we never have problems having s_x. this thing has happened once before , he just doesnot get a hard on.. I spoke to the doc about it and she attributed it to stress. neways ,its all now a waiting game for me.. im on day 13 today

 

suzzieq - May 12

Mani, I am so sorry for your losses. You are a strong person to keep ttc, I admire that! Last month dh and I were so concerned with just making a baby and he had a couple nights that took some extra time because it just wasn't working! This month, yes I figured the days, but we are going about it differently. I have noticed that I didn't treat him like my husband, he needed more from me to let him know I still loved him and wanted him! So far it is doing us great, we feel reconnected again in a way. I am not trying to say that you don't appreciate your dh but I also know that when we are ttc it gets to be a chore, sort of speak and we forget other important things. I hope I did not affend you, I certainly didn't mean to if I did. I was just explaining how dh and I were and maybe it is kinda what is going on with you. I do wish you the very very best and hope that it all works out for you and your dh!!

 

Suebee - May 12

Mani.. Oh ok, I understand now. Well, it seems like you've been through alot of testing.. in fact I've never heard of viper venom.. sounds like some kind of snake thing...LOL.. j.k...seriously, as suzzie said, I also admire you for not giving up. It must be so very hard for you and your dh! I can totally understand dh's problem as it's happened to all of our dh's at some point or another. Alot of focus does go on baby making and sometimes we forget not to be so mechanical..if you know what I mean.. Waiting is really hard, I know how you feel but the point is you're not giving up. So, good for you.. keep doing what the dr's say and hopefully it will work out for you. I wish you much luck!

 

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