Part 3 Ovulation Amp TTC After M C

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Helene - February 8

Okay! This is a continuation of parts 1 & 2 as the previous threads are taking too long to load due to our frequent flyer use! This is the REAL thread not to be confused with the nasty, negative thread that billed itself as part 3 created by irritated. For anyone new, you may want to look back to ovulation & TTC after m/c Part 1 or Part 2. The people on this thread are either going through a m/c, have experienced one or multiple m/c's or have successfully gotten pregnant after previous miscarriage(s). It is open to all who want to give or receive advice, and no one will judge you or insult you for your losses or successes or opinions. Welcome to all and best wishes and baby dust.

 

Helene - February 8

Okay, ladies - come on in - the water's fine!

 

Helene - February 8

Dawn - I honsetly don't know about the strips. I would play it safe and buy new ones. When I am close to ovulation time I test in the morning and again in the evening in case the surge starts later in the day or at night. I even tested three times on a few days. Hey, I figure, let me get my money's worth out of these things, ha, ha! Plus, last month was the first time I used the whole 20 because remember I got the positives two wekends in a row (and don't ask because I have NO EXPLANATION for why - I am just as confused since no one ovulates twice in a cycle - LOL!).

 

nicole nelson - February 8

ok i am here i don't think this one took as long to load. the way we are all going they are going to have forums 1-100 just kidding lol

 

LeraeAllyn - February 8

Hi Helene - Thank you for starting the new string. Nice message at the top too. Thank you for your thoughts about the strips. I will definitely be buying a new box soon. Ya know I found them for only $14.99 someplace - Bargain! Plus there is a coupon in the box :-) I may test more then once a day too, although they say not to use the strips first thing in the morning - best time is mid afternoon to evening. I am going out of town the 17-19th and fear that will be prime time and DH will not be with me :-( That would completely stink. But, if I keep on track with a 34 day cycle again then I might be OK, we will see I guess. So Helene how old are you again and do you have any kids yet? I am getting blurry on some of the details about all our ladies on here. I will be 35 in March. Dawn

 

nicole nelson - February 8

well dawn. i will refresh your memory. i am 21 and have a two year old. (terrible twos) lol. Good luck to you all.

 

LeraeAllyn - February 8

Thanks Nicole :-) -- WOW, 21! That seems like a lifetime ago. Well, I hope you are able to give that two year old another sibling soon. I am HOPING HOPING HOPING to conceive this month. Time to head home for the night ...Hope all the other ladies come on board this new string. I just went and read the imposter part 3 string .... Not nice, that girl. Dawn

 

rachel1 - February 8

Hi all. I had a D & C 13th december due to they told me I was having ectopic pregnancy, they gave me methetrexate and then found baby in right place, what they thought was ectopic was actually ovarian cysts, but way to late then as I had already had this methetrexate which made me have a miscariage. Cant believe what they have done to me, but you dont want me blabbing all about that do you, cause I could go on and on. I had my first af on 14th january following my D & C, ovulated 30th and 31st january, and anytime now my period is due as I normally have a cycle of anything between 26 - 28 days. I done a test today, which I know I shouldnt of, which was BFN, but i so eager I cant help myself. The reason why i done the test is because I aint got any signs of my af coming as normally I have heavy and bruised feeling b___bs about 1 week before. The only thing I got this time is slight cramp in my left ovary but I have had this ever since ovulation on and off. I asked my hubby to check cervix earlier and he could hardly touch it, the little bit he did feel he said was soft. I really dont know what to think can anyone suggest to me please. Any help will be gratefull. Babydust to all.

 

nicole nelson - February 8

***dawn*** i sure hope i can give my little girl a sibling soon too. ***rachel*** i am glad you chose to talk to us and i am sorry that you had a m/c. so maybe you will get lucky again. Good luck. May God bless us all with beautiful babes.

 

rachel1 - February 8

thankyou, Im hoping to and I wish you all the luck to. Any suggestions to my above questions? I so confused.

 

frankschick2001 - February 8

RACHEL: I cannot believe that they misdiagnosed you! Can you sue them? Thats just awful!

 

nicole nelson - February 8

you know franks chick you have a point wouldn't that be like a malpractice case or something.

 

coda - February 8

reachel i would sue how terrible is that deffentetly negudlance on there part they bloody gave u an abortion!!!! sorry that just makes me mad why did they not do an us they would have seen they were cycsts and the bub for that or at least a sac sorry for ur loss it just terrible in this day n age! u know i have a box of stips sitting in my cupboard unopened because i was gonna use them after my next period but never got it . i figure i was dehidrated thats why i was dizzy was very hot yesterday. helen its not unheared of to ovulate twice in one cycle. my big sister went to have an abortion (i know aaah but trust me it was for the best) she got her scan and the pregnancy was mc natrually (by that i mean it was being absorbe and colapsing the sac anyways they sent her away and she had a bit of bleeding but she still felt pregnant so she went back 2 weeks latter and there was another bub there think its rare for this to happen but no unheard of with futernal twins the eges are not always relised at the same time as they come from different overys. just food for thought lol i was just worryed for a bit cos my mum has high blood pressure and had preaclampsayer in her pregnancy but i am fine today :) just very hungry

 

coda - February 8

oops forgot to say nice opening statment helen :)

 

nicole nelson - February 8

so coda are you doing ok now. was you dehydrated or just dizzy. or did you find out what is wrong with you. has anybody let daniella know about this part 3. oh and i am going to the doctor tomorrow so i will let everyone know how it goes. nite nite for now.

 

coda - February 8

I thought of you and closed my eyes and prayed to god today, I asked what makes a mother, and i know i heard him say, A mother has a baby, this we know is true, but god can you be a mother if your baby is not with you? Yes you can he replied with confidence in his voice, i give many women babies, but when they leave is not their choice,some i send for a lifetime,and others for a day,and some i send to feel your womb but there is no need to stay.i just don't understand this god i want my baby here, he took a deep breath and then cleared`his throat and then i saw the tear, i wish i could show you what your child is doing today, if you could see your childs smile with all the other children and say.we go to earth to learn our lesson, of love and life and fear,my mommy loved me oh so much i had to come straight here,i feel so lucky to have a mom,who had so much love for me,i learned my lesson so very quicckly,my mommy set me free,i miss my mommy oh so much,but i visit her everyday,when she goes to sleep, on her pillows where i lay,i stroke her hair & kiss her cheek,and whisper in her ear "mommy don't be sad today im your baby and im here" so you see my dear sweet ones your children are okay, your babies are born here in my home , and this is where they'll stay.they'll wait for you with me,until your lessons through, and on the day that you come home, they'll be at the gates for you, so now you see what makes a mother, it's the feeling in your heart, it's the love you had so much of right from the very start. Though some on eart may not realize, you are a mother until their time is done. they'll be up here with me one day and know that you are the best one........!!!! I really hope you enjoy this poem

 

rachel1 - February 8

Hi again, thanks everyone for your concerns, I could tell you all the full story if you want to know, but I didnt think anyone would want to read it. I have made a complaint to the nhs chief executive, I have now had my report back from him and got a solicitors appointment on tuesday. There is no way I going to let them get away with it, and Im also going to broadcast it as I certainly dont want it to happen to anyone else. I can imagine that it has happened to so many people already without them even knowing. I even had one of the nurses who worked on the ward I was on approach me whilst shopping the other day and asked how I was feeling, she asked was I taking it further as she thought it was terrible in what has happened, but she said they couldnt say anything like that to me in hospital as they were in work and its not their policy. She said in how much all the staff on the ward was in shock and panicking for my sake as they knew what they had done. the only way I can say it at the moment is B****ARDS, so sorry for the swearing but makes me so angry to think they taken away my baby, that I tried so hard to conceive for, It took us 4 years with clomid with no joy, so we decided to give up trying as it was to stressfull towards the end everymonth seeing af arrive. Then about 3 months after we conceived. Anyways, if anyone wants to hear my full story of what when on then of course I will tell you. I will tell anyone as like I said I dont ant it happening to anyone else. Good luck to you all, and loads of babydust.

 

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