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apb4242 - June 4

So I found out I was pregnant about three days ago. Yesterday I woke up to the worst cramps I could imagine and bleeding pretty heavily. I was like this all day. It cramped extremely bad lower than it usually does when I'm having my period. Then last night I passed a about half dollar sized blood clot. I'm still bleeding now a little bit but I'm extremely gassy feeling in my stomach. Also I don't "feel" pregnant anymore. Like I'm not nauseated or anything anymore. I have an appointment Monday. Should I wait till then or go to the ER now? Does anyone know if I miscarried or if this is normal? 

 

enawatson - May 17

I am so sorry for you. It is so hard for a woman to lose an unborn baby. I know the pain that how much it hurts. I know the struggle a woman does. I have faced it. It left me infertile. I was then an infertile woman. I later went for surrogacy. It was like my last option. I was later blessed with a baby.

 

serra1 - May 17

I am so sad for you. It must have been so hard for you. I know the agony that the amount it pain. I know the battle a lady does. I have confronted it. It cleared out me infertility I faced it for 10 years. I was then an infertile lady. I later went for surrogacy. It resembled it as my last alternative. I was later honoured with a child.

 

TareneKent - May 17

Oh no. This is awful. I feel really sorry for you. I'd suggest you see a doctor right away. I can relate, trust me. I really hope it isn't an MC, but it doesn't look great. Fingers crossed.

 

FloraRustin88 - May 17

So, deeply sorry for your loss. Stay strong! Just get back to your obstetrician. See what he tells you. I hope it won't be a big problem...He will take ultrasounds. I hope it's not an MC. Anyway! Update me what's happening to you?

 

AmandaK - May 18

I am so sorry to hear your loss and concern. We are no experts here, you would be going through a possible miscarriage. But as I said situations differ. You must go see an ER for possible diagnosis and treatment. I know mc's are not easy. My heartiest condolences hun.

 

Anisa28 - May 21

Hey. I can understand your situation. It is so hard for a woman to lose an unborn baby. I know your pain. I am so sorry. A woman always wants to be a mother because being a mother is a blessing. Sometimes we never get what we want.I tried to conceive for almost 10 years but failed. I had cervix Incompetence disease due to which I was Infertile. My husband wanted babies too. I decided to go for surrogacy because I wanted to see him happy. Today I am blessed with a baby. Surrogacy is really a blessing.

 

erin_wales - May 25

I really felt deep grief for you. It is so hard for any lady to face miscarriage. I have an idea to some extent that how much it hurts. It takes a lot from the lady. I also miscarried due to a terrible accident. I later went for surrogacy treatment. It totally changed my life. Thank God, I finally had my wish fulfilled.

 

kushal - May 28

hey there!! I am so sad for you how much hard it is for you I can imagine it. I know the battle a lady does. I have confronted it. It cleared out me infertility I faced it for 10 years. nothing is much harsh then to be infertile. I was then an infertile lady. I later went for surrogacy.i think you should also go for it. it will be fruitful for you. good luck

 

sidneywhite - June 5

Sorry to hear about your lose dear. I feel sorry for you. It is hard for a woman to lose unborn baby. I can feel your pain. It must be hard for you. Don't Lose hope. You have to stay strong. I also had 3 miscarriages. After that doctor diagnosed out me infertility. We are no experts. Dear you have to visit a doctor. He will take the ultrasound. I hope there will be no big problem. I am crossing my fingers for the good results best of luck. Keep me posted about your condition. 

 

annataylor1 - June 5

Hey dear. You should go to ER as soon as possible. Because things really don't look like in your favour. This is totally relatable to my cousin. And the same thing happens to her. She miscarried her baby later. I know this is so hard for you. Stay strong and hope for the best.

 

annataylor1 - June 5

Hey dear. You should go to ER as soon as possible. Because things really don't look like in your favour. This is totally relatable to my cousin. And the same thing happens to her. She miscarried her baby later. I know this is so hard for you. Stay strong and hope for the best. Things will be in your favour soon. There is always a bright day after dark night. This is not the end. Wait for your turn.

 

alex1018 - June 5

Hey. I am sorry you had to go through this. Miscarriages are getting too common now. I know it must be really hard going through this. I hope you look at other options. Like surrogacy and adoption. Just take precautions with everything you do. I know it is none of your fault that this happened. I hope you can try again. See if it is okay. You should go to the doctor's as soon as possible. These things ca not be kept waiting. What if your health is in danger. But if you feel like you need to wait till Monday to got there, then you wait. I am really sorry again. I hope whatever happens next is for the best. Good luck. And take care.

 

serra1 - June 5

I am so sad for you. It is so difficult for a lady to lose an unborn infant. I know the torment that the amount it harms. I know the battle a lady does. I have confronted the battle of infertility. I have faced infertility for 10 years. The reason behind my infertility was unknown. I also went for medication but failed. I chose other procedures IVF but failed. I was an infertile lady. I later went for surrogacy. It was my last choice. I was later honoured with a child. I was blessed and surrogacy was my last option. Indeed surrogacy is an amazing process.

 

Rachel966 - June 5

I'm from Japan. We are settled in Japan from last few decades.
I had hysterectomy cancer. All of you should know its treatment and its result.As a result i was cancer free but for the lifetime i'm infertile now.So i was worried and  tensed and than my husband came to know about surrogacy.Surrogacy is a method of raising a baby from someone's else egg. I was amazed at this method but when i studied about it i was happy.Here in Japan it is totally prohibited.So we moved to Europe and roamed in Europe for sometime and contacted many clinics there, Than we heard about a clinic and we moved to Ukraine. It is a very good clinic and we consulted them.
They are the best they have best solution for us now.
Then we found a surrogate mom and we donated the eggs and now surrogate is carrying our twin daughters. Now when i sit alone i thank god that he is giving us two gifts in one time. We are so happy and excited to have our babies.
Please share your stories with me.

 

Samiah - June 5

Hey, How are you? Hope you are fine. Welcome to this forum. Thanks for sharing your worries with us. I hope you will get good piece of advice here. I think you should go for ER right now. Things are not looking in your favor. I had gone through the same experience. I had faced the similar kind of situation. I didnt able to conceive , it was miscarriage. I don't want this to happen to you. Be strong and hopeful. Things will be alright very soon.It is not the end. Sending you baby dust. Cheers.

 

riazoyer - June 6

hey, there stranger. It must have been really hard for you to lose a child, I have gone through the exact same thing and trust me it I know exactly how you feel right now.Why do you sound so cynical though? Did you know around 25% of pregnancies are MC? that is a huge number. I would recommend to other ladies also reading this that if you have gone through a miscarriage you should probably take a break for a year or so and give your body time to recover especially if you were more then 3 months into it. Your body gets damaged a lot and needs time to recover. Try taking honey water with apple cider everyday it helps in recovery. Other than that there is no need to be cynical a lot of women get to have a family after an MC do not be alarmed. You can still go for IVF cycles if you are not succeeding, but keep trying.Take care of yourself and much love.

 

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