Plz Help Delay Emotions Anyone Else

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kristie h - April 26

Hi Ladies, Nine months has passed the numness has gone and my emotions are just begging to kick in. My baby was due 12-01-2006 just 2 days b4 my sons 1st birthday, I was 12 weeks when i found out that my bundle of joy had passed at 9 weeks gesturn. I seen his little arms, tiny body, tiny head and little legs and a line on the bottom of the ultrasound screen going dead straight, no heart beat. I was told it was a missed miscarriage only to think back at around 8-9 weeks pregnant i was on the loo vomiting uncontrolablly and having diareehat at the same time with pains in my tummy as if i was going through labour after the vomiting everything was gone, No pain, no diareeh and when i look back no pregnany symptoms. With my 1st pregnancy i went to the doctor with pains in my tummy and was told if you are not bleeding there is not a problem, so that stuck in my mind and as i found out that is not always true. Well i had a d&c and they told me it was a molar pregnancy and i had to wait 6 months to become pregnant. Well the six months had passed and in jan 06 i fell pregnant only to lose it in feb at 5.3 day gesturn. I am ttc at the moment but the image of seeing my 1st miscarriage on the ultrasound screen is continuisly in my mind when i go to bed and tears fall from my eye, thats why i thought i might come on here. Is it normal to have delay emotions? Shoudlnt i have been passed this? Is there anyone else that has had the dealy reaction? Plz i want to know that i am not alone.

 

kristie h - April 26

Anyone PLZ????

 

Julie.N - April 26

Hi Kristie. i am so sorry to hear of your losses. I have only had one miscarriage (just over 2 wks ago) although was told preg had failed about 6 wks ago. so i am not in exactly the same situation but i know the emotions you are going through. everyone handles their loss in different ways and im sure there is no right or wrong way to how you should be feeling. its only natural that you are still grieving, and to have to go through it a second time just adds to your heartache. I have days when i am perfectly fine, then days where i cant stop crying. I am just trying to look to the future and hope for a healthy pregnancy next time. (easier said than done, i know!) We are both lucky that we already have a child (although it doesnt make the pain of your loss go away) I dont know that my rambling has made you feel any better but just wanted to write to you when i read your post. Take care. Julie x

 

kristie h - April 26

Hi Julie, I am sorry that you have gone through this horrible exsperiance too. I dont know about you but when i fell pregnant the 2nd time i thought i would never miscarry but how wrong was my thinking. If you need to talk just send me a post and ill reply when i am on. Take care and my thoughts are with you.

 

Julie.N - April 26

yeah i know what u mean, i never thought i would miscarry, its one of them things u think wont happen to u. I guess it doesnt work like that thou eh! Its a horrible thing to go through and people dont understand unless they have been through it theirselves. thats why i have found this forum great cos everyone is or has been in the same boat. Same goes to you if you want to talk just post me!! Speak soon!

 

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